Mia go round

Mia: "Miya nak ride horsey horsey mommy"

Mommy : Ur not scared?

Mia : No.

Mommy : Ok..jom

Muka comel yang excited sebelum horsey start gerak.

Siap bye2 mommy lagi..

Siap cakap "faster horsey" lagi okeh

Ini aksi semasa horsey dah start gerak..

Both hands pelum daddy..

Pastu merengek cakap scared..scared..

Siap nangis nak go down..

Itulah..tadi tunjuk hero sangat..

Hahahahaha..

Tuan penasihat : Mia Zahra

Mia mmg terkenal dengan mulut becok-tak berhenti bercakap dia sekarang. Saya rasa mulut dia stop only masa dia tidur.Other than that..pot pet pot pet..bla bla bla..nyanyi-nyanyi..pot pet ..Kalau dalam kereta tu, start je enjin sampai la sampai ke destinasi,mmg tak pernah sunyi la mulut dia memeriahkan kereta tu.

Skang pula, dah pandai menasihatkan orang.Selalu nya apa yang di nasihatkan tu sama macam apa yang saya tak bagi dia buat je lah.
Some of the scenes of her being adviser tak bergaji.

Scene 1.
Kat school park..and she dont want to share the slide with Aisya.

Mommy: " Mia share with Aisya ok..if you dont to want to share, mommy bring you back to our house..no more play"
Mia pandang and anguk2..Tak lama lepas tu

Mia: "Aica, go back house now..mama (pointed to Aisya's mama) nak go back house tu"

*power kan idea si Mia nak main sorang2 punya pasal..sanggup suruh orang balik rumah"

Scene 2.
Daddy sings very loud..tarik corus lagu apatah...

Mia: "No daddy..vey loud..shakit Mia ears"

*daddy and mommy lauging like mad after dat..so oklah .dia dah faham..mulut utk makan..telinga untuk listen..nose untuk smell..

Scene 3.
Daddy accidently bite his fingers

Mia: "No bite fingernail daddy..nanti Mia put ulat nanti"
(Terus gigit jari diri sendiri lepas nasihatkan orang boleh?..sendiri tak boleh nak stop habit tu..lagi mau nasihatkan orang)

Scene 4.
I took her from the school at 5pm..masa tu still panas lagi..so she play bawah garrage school je.Then suddenly ada parents yang datang amik one boy ni.And the boy terus lari keluar main kat school' park

Mia: " No.. abang....very hot..got sun..nanti fever fever..play here oni"

*Copycat every sentences of mommy's word to her

Scene 5
She saw kids playing police and thieves outside our house.
An with her diva's finger..she shouted to the kids..

Mia: "Dont run abang..walk soli soli..jatuh nanti..Got blood.."

Scene 6
Last night we brought her dinner kat precint 9.Yang kat area tu ada pool for kiddies.
Tempat tu agak gelap la kat situ.Selalynya Mia tak tentu arah sket kalau jumpa air.Tapi this time macam baik je duduk kat bench tu.

Mommy: "You want to swim"
Mia : No..
Mommy : Go touch the water only k.."
Mia : Noo..mommy..got shark inside.."

*gila lah kat putrajaya pun ada shark

Comelje kan nasihatkan orang sana sini.Padahal diri sendiri pun buat. Tak sabar pula nak dengar Mia nasihat "Nanti-tuhan-marah" kat orang..hahaha..takpun "Nanti -masuk-api-neraka ".
heheheh..masa tu lagi annoying kut ...

Perfect Moms

Pagi tadi saya bangun awal..takde lah awal mana pun.Tapi bangun before Mia and daddy.Saya turun bawah,prepared light breakfast for my self and duduk depan TV tengok Oprah..

This morning, Oprah series pasal "perfect mom"..wujud ke?
Mom yang boleh manage all the housework, cooks 3 dishes for the family and make sure the kids and the daddy needs perfectly.Kids tak comot, kemas je all the time.And the mommy pun cun melecun tersenyum sambil pakai apron.
Wujud ke perfect mom like dat?
And sape yang start with the term of perfect mom and why all the mom out there selalu nak compare kan diri sendiri with those prfect mom?

Acceli "perfect mom" yang kita nak jadi sangat2 tu buat kita jadi stress kat diri sendiri.Buat kita rasa penat and tak cukup tidor.Tak dapat nak enjoy life to the fullest..and yang paling penting,we will lose the precious moment with the children.
Ye lah,balik je kerja nak masak sedap2..nak kemas rumah biar cantik..nak mandi kan anak and tak bagi anak main kat luar or makan choclat sbb takut comot.
Bila dah asyik nak make sure benda lain teratur, kita terlupa kat anak sendiri..Kita terlupa nak spend our time with them.Tahu2 je anak dah besar nak pindah rumah.

And sama macam husband juga.Dia balik rumah, kita too busy nak clean up the house.Nak cuci pinggang and baju kotor sampai terlupa nak tanya husband ok ke tak dia kerja kat office..ada awek nak ngorat ke dia kat office.
Tahu2 je kita dah terlalu penat nak borak with them...

So my points now is same with Oprah..chewahh..tetiba nak satu hati dengan Oprah kan..Focus and give your attension to your kids and your hubby.Peduli lah rumah bersepah...peduli lah baju kotor banyak tak berbasuh..Yang penting kita layan anak and suami kita dulu.If ada masa lebih baru buat.If takde masa, apa lagi panggil lan part time maid.Itu yang saya buat sekarang..Saya malas la nak pening2 kpala tgk rumah bersepah2 dek mia dan daddy. Biarlah Mia nak tunggang langgang kan hall rumah..daddy nak campak baju seluar dia merata2 pun.Malas lah nak marah2..Saya pun nak join sekali "mari-sepahkan-rumah" games dengan diorang..
Yang penting saya sempat nak main2 dengan Mia..and sempat nak borak2 dengan daddy.

Saya taknak jadi perfect mom lagi dah..
If dapat jadi a Fun Mom pun dah more than enough.

Kalau tak sempat masak..apa lagi jom layan Pizza Hutz..Muka Mia comot yang pulun makan mushroom soup..

"Can Mommy Can"

Iam writing this post in a very frustration and sad mode of feeling.

Harini Mia demam sket.So agak meragam mahu berkepit sahaja..
Petang tadi sambil baring2, peluk2..and tepuk2 Mia.."
Tetiba dia bangun..selak baju..selak bra..
Saya and EL pun agak terperanjat jugalah sbb dah agak lama (almost one and a half week) dia tak ingat nak bf dah.
Maybe sbb demam kali ni pun sbb demam stop bf.
Ok..sambung semula..

Saya pun cakap "cannot..susu mommy sakit"
Mia dengan muka confident "Can mommy..can.." sambil anguk2..seakan nak cakap..susu mommy dah baik..takde ulat so mia can shushu..
Saya cepat2 tutup balik ..sambil buat2 nangis cakap sakit2 ...sakit..
Mia apa lagi..menangis melalak2...sambil sebut "can mommy.can.."

Alahai anak omak..
sedih pilu hati bonda ni anakanda dengar kamu menangis merayu2.
Tapi mommy ada reason yang sangat besar on "Why you have to stop BF"
Its for everybody's own good.

Daddy cepat2 umpan Mia dengan Iphone..untuk bagi dia lupa kat shushu mommy.
Nasib baik Ok..

Malam ni dia tdo..takde lah mintak pun..tapi sempat lagi pesan saya suruh makan ubat..(so susu cepat baik maybe)
Panas lagi badan Mia skang..
Tengok muka anak yang sedang tidor..alahai..hati ibu mana yang tak sedih..
Sucinya lah wahai muka itu..muka yang masih percaya susu mommy sakit ..(kannn dah nangis ni..)

Maafkan mommy sayang..
Semoga kamu cepat baik...esok lepas mommy test..kita ajak daddy pergi Critterland..takpun kita g jalan2 carik baju raya nak?

"Forgetting" Drama Queen

Mia's favaourite word skang is FORGET.sket2 forget..sket forget..kadang2 betul penggunaan forget tu..kadang2 tidak berapa betul..comey je..mommy nak marah pun tak boleh..dah nama dia forget kan..bukan dia sengaja..


1.Case 1.
Scene: Saturday..Mommy kejut bangun tdo.and dukung turun bawah.Tanpa perasan Daddy yang still tidor lagi.

Tinggalkan Mia kat sofa and saya ke dapur ..suddenly..Mia called me ..saya kembali ke hall nampak dia tgh pegang uniform daddy

Mia: "Mommy ..daddy go work..daddy forget ni.." (Sambil tunjuk uniform daddy)
Mommy : " No..daddy upstair sleeping la..
Mia : (still in denial mode) " Nooo..daddy forget..sian daddy"

Mommy : whateva la Mia..(dalam hati)

2. Case 2
Scene..Tv kat rumah ada sensor..so everytime object/kids too close with tv..it will blinking..no image will come out..just a warn to stay far

Mia: " Mommy..Tv rosak..Mia forget
Mommy : Forget why?
Mia: Mia come to Tv..Mia forget..then Tv rosak ..

3. Case 3.
Scene : Mia mengangkut semua dolls yang dia ada dalam playroom ke hall.Then tetiba bila dah susun a.k.a selerakkan kat hall dia kembali ke playroom semula..

Mia : " Sorry turtle..Mia forget"

Sambil bawak turtle tu ke hall untuk menambahkan kesemakan .

4. Case 4
Scene : Balik dari school..teacher ngadu kat mommy yang Mia fight with her friend..Dont wanna share toys kat school.
Inside the car then i asked her

Mommy: Why you fight?mommy tell you not to fight kan..u have to love you fren..bla bla..u have to share..bla bla bla.
Mia : Mia forget mommy.
Mommy: terdiam lagi..

5. Case 5
Scene : Mommy menyarungkan dress Mia yang masih muat kat badan just dah singkat..dress tu macam ala2 pemain tennis dah..bongkok sket dah nampak panties punya singkat..hahahah..

Mia: "Mommy forget"
Mommy : "forget what?"
Mia : "Mia's pants mommy..shame shame lah.."
Mommy (bagus anakku tak suka seksi2)eekekeke..

Tambah lagi

Harini kena jaga exam from 8.30am to 10.30 am.
kebuhsanan sungguh ok..

Boring punya boring..saya borak dengan lecturer senior ni.
She is 40 years old..ada 15 years old son already.
Bagus kan..muda lagi tapi anak dah besar.
By the time saya 40 nanti Mia will be 12 years old.

Kakak ni pun baru balik haji last year.seronok dengar cerita dia.
Dia pesan, buat lah anak muda2 ni.Nanti dah baya2 dia dah tak larat dah nak jaga anak kecik2.
Betul juga kan.
This september i will turn 30.
Dah tua dah..dah kena say bye bye bye to number 2.
Kenalah beranak cepat2 sket.
So by next year boleh bersalin...

I hope by the time saya umor 40..no more changing diapers dah masa tu.
No more dukung2 dah..
No more suap2 makan dah..
Nak relax relax je pergi shopping.ekekek.
Kalau di izinkan Allah and ada rezeki terlebih boleh tunaikan Haji as early 40 years old.
Aminnn...

Tapi mampu ke ada anak 2 or 3 now?
Money?
Kudrat?
Time?

Mampu kah saya membahagi2 kan kasing sayang towards 3 of them ..skang pun rasa macam sayang gila dengan Mia sorang..macam mana kalau ada adik dia nanti?
adakah saya akan sayang Mia lebih dari adik or sebaliknya?
Orang cakap..dah nama anak..so sayang nya pun sama.

Kalau boleh saya mahu sorang lagi..
and kalau boleh nak boy..
Tapi kalau dapat girl pun takpe..
comel je ada girls dua orang..
Just untuk penutup saya mahu boy.

Umur dah semakin lanjut..so kena fikir untuk tambah sorang lagi.
Gila wei..tahun ni i will turn to 30..
30 babe..
dulu masa nak masuk 20 tahun bukan punya happy lagi.
Apsal bila nak masuk 30 ni rasa macam dah tua?
and another 10 more years umor panjang..angka 4 pun muncul..

Satu minggu sudah

Its been a week, i end my BF journey.Mia pun ok dah..alhamdulillah takde demam or whatsnot..
For me..during early 3 days je i expressed the milk..then after that susu terus kering kontang..so takde la bengkak susu ke apa.
Alhamdulillah everything went smoothly .

Mia's now consume pediasure at school.She can finished up 7 oz per feeding. 2x je lah kat school.before nap and after the nap.Kat rumah mmg tak nak langsung pegang botol.Apasal tah..penat dah saya dok sua sua kat dia..before nak tdo saya prepare satu bottle untuk dia minum.But..nan ado nye dia nak minum..
End up skang ni i used shringe to feed her the milk..5 oz boleh habis.Takde pun muntah..ok pula tu..relax je minum susu yang saya shringekan dalam mulut dia..
So kat rumah i will give her 2x la..morning time before go to school..and night time before bed time..
Tak tahu lah sampai bila saya kena shringekan susu kat Mia ni..tak kisah lah ..asalkan dia minum susu.for me susu sangat2 improtant for kids at her age.

Since Mia stop bf i noticed dia dah develop new habit..biting finger nails pula..haihh..datang satu2..ok saya ngaku gigit kuku tu mmg tabiat buruk saya..mungking dia nampak saya buat selalu dia ikut la..or maybe dgn cara tu dia rasa boleh tenteramkan diri dia selain dari hisap susu.
penat dah saya nak menjetik jari dia ,pujuk dia cakap fingernail dirty got ulat..tapi cam tak jalan pun..

Plan nak letak serbuk teh kat jari dia..hah..biar dia tgk sendiri yang betul2 ada ulat..tgk dia berani nak gigit lagi ke tak..

Nanti saya update hasil nya..heheh

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Clarks shoes for sale

Last month Clarks ada buat warehouse sales.

Borong sakan la saya mensoping..saya beli 2 pasang wedges sendiri pakai, 3 pasang Mia's shoes and 1 pair sandal for daddy..

Total less than rm600.

Mmg gila murah.Patutlah orang sanggup beratur berjam2 untuk masuk.

My friend Roy ada beli shoes for girls size 2-3years old.

And she want to let go some of it.

So, if you guys interested to buy any of these shoes just contact my friend Roy.

Email her at

rohaya.halid@gmail.com

1. Clarks Appleshine

Color : White Leather.

Size : 7 UK, 24 EUR

RM90 (Postage included)

2. Clarks Mollyglitz

Color : Baby Pink Leather

Size : 7 UK, 24 EUR
RM75 (Postage included)

3. Clarks Meadowmist

Color: Hot Pink Nubuck

Size : 7.5 UK, 25 EUR

RM90 (Postage included)

My journey end here

Yesterday 7th June 2011 ..After 2 years and 1 week of breastfeeding..The journey end here.
Sobbsss..nangiss plz..sedih gila..but i have to be firm on this.Kena nekad..i plan for 2 years..and alhamdulillah berjaya..Serious emo..nak tulis post ni pun berdebar2..pastu air mata kat hujung mata je.

Yesterday morning..saya sapukan serbuk teh at my boobs..
and i told Mia.."ulat bite susu..sakit sangat"
Then i showed her "the ulat"
Mia geli gila ok..

I send her to school yesterday at 12pm..she keep repeating.."sian shushu..sian mommy..ulat bite"
She even told her teachers about that too..

Half day berjaya ..
I know the biggest part is during night time.Problem for her and also for me.
As for her..she never went to bed without shushu..and as for mommy the only method that i can put her to sleep is the boobie.
11pm..i bring her upstair..together with me is one bottle of Pediasure milky..
Tapi dia tak layan langsung the milk.
Kejap2 peluk mommy..kejap2 peluk mommy..

EL pun tak membantu sangat..sket2 cakap "sian mia yang"
Biasalah hati ayah ni lembut bila tengok anak dia menggelupur.
A for me..lagi2 lah hancur luluh hati..tapi misi kena nekad.
No turning back..

1am kut baru Mia tertidur bawak ketiak saya.Itupun setelah berpusing2 tak tahu nak buat apa.
Kesian dia..
At 4 am she woke up for milk ..and i told her the same thing.."susu got ulat"
she cried and it makes me so sad..nangis sampai batuk2..
Saya tepuk2 dia..and start tell her story about the new parks that we discovered yesterday.
saya bercerita about the slides color apa..about the see saw yang shape like ulat..and also how high Mia can swing yesterday...bla bla..and she straight to bed again..

At 5am the same thing happen again..she wake up again for milk..again cried when i told her about the ulat.
I change the story..takmo dia ingat sangat kat susu susu ni..i told her coakroaches yang i sprayed kat downstairs malam tadi..eehehe..and she tidur semula..

Adalah dekat 2-3 time dia bangun for milk..and the same thingi did to her..hurmm...i can say..Mia success for no mommy shushu for one day already..today is the second day..hopefully things will get better tonight.

To mia,
Mommy halalkan susu mommy selama dua tahun satu minggu ni.Mommy mintak maaf sangat2 sbb tak dapat nak sambung contract another 6 more month.
Mia dah besar.Dah tak comel lagi kalau minm susu mommy.
Mommy sayang Mia sangat2.sampai mati pun mommy sayang.
Mommy sedih sangat skang..
The two year journey bf'ing is you is the best moment for mommy to treasure..the most wonderful thing that i did just for my baby.

Her new hobby

First..tebar kan kain macam roti canai.

Second..fold it into two



Third:..Fold it into 4

Taraaaa..dah siap..

Towel kaler putih mommy punya..

Towerl kaler kuning Mia punya..

Not bad kan..

Bagus anakanda..lepas ni mommy boleh ajar lipar baju,seluar dah lain2 lain lagi.

Big Two Part 2

Last Monday on 30th Mei,Mia had her second befday celebration at her school.

The party started at 9.30am and end around 12pm.

Time tu kids pun dah letih nak tdo dah..

Oh..oh..we had a face painting also that day ..best.

At first all the kids refuse to let the painter do an art on their face.

So macam biasa la..mommy try first ..

Mommy sentiasa over dari anak..

Right after Mia saw the butterfly on my face..she then asked for hers too.
Biasalah..sentiasa mau copycat mommy.

Her second cake for her second befday celebration.

She want Elmo..

Anak yang sudah besar..sudah 2 tahun yo

Atok and Uwan joined the party

Double celebration with Afeeq.

He had a Mickey Mouse cake and he turning 1.

My pinky princess

Blow candle ..terpaksa nyalakan the candle for 3 times..

sbb Mia asyik nak blow je..

Belum nyanyi lagi dah blow..

Cake cutting

Suap cake

Licking..nyummyy

Emak dan Anak

Anak dara saya

Anak dara saya yang comot tapi cute.

Makan Rocky pula.

Tamak..amik sampai 5 batang ok.

Musical Chair.

Mia dah kalah pun..still bertanding ..masuk untuk round2 lagi..ekekek.

Dia tak faham lagi rules main ni.

belasah je lah..

Mesti dia ingat main pusing2 ..pastu bila penat,sila carik tempat duduk.

Kelakar ok

And the kids say.."besttttt!"

Gaya bebas.

Masa ni Mia cam dah penat nak tidor.

Sebab tu muka blur je.

Amik satu kotak terus lah..senang takyah mintak byk kali.

At last..she showing her teeth..the only picture..

Yang lain semua gambar serius.

Port memanjat semasa di school.

Add on "Love with arrow" painting on her right cheeks.

Now sudah macam rojak..ada butterfly and love .

Dear My darling Mia,

Mommy hope you enjoyed your second befday celebration this year.

Mommy hope you had fun wth your friends that day.

Insyaalah, there will be Part 3 coming soon.

Celebration with daddy pula.

Daddy coming back this Saturday..super happy..

Yeahhh..and yeahh..and yeahhhh...