Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Duit duit dimana kau duit

Gaji 10k setiap bulan pun masih tidak cukup..
Jangan salah faham ye..itu bukan gaji saya sorang..itu combination gaji saya dgn En.Laling.
Bukan tidak bersyukur dgn gaji itu..tapi saya pelik kenapa saya dan En.Laling masih perlu berjimat cermat lagi..masih tidak boleh berfoya2 shopping sesuka hati..

Dulu ayah saya gaji rm1k sahaja..anak ada 4orang..cukup je..ayah saya cakap everymonth dia mesti save 10% from gaji dia for emergency..and at the age of 60 ayah saya dapat belanja ibu saya yang housewife itu mengerjakan haji di Makkah.

Tapi itu dulu..belanja harian tak semahal sekarang..dulu mak saya tetiap hari masak..so maybe boleh jimat kat situ..

Kereta saya dan kereta En.Laling monthly sebulan dah rm1.5k. Rumah kami sekarang sebulan 1.5k..kat situ sahaja dah jadi rm3k..

Bil handphone Maxis, Streamyx, Astro, Bil air, Bil elektrik, cukai itu, cukai ini , plus En.Laling kena bayarkan astro, Bil air n Electrik rumah parents dia juga..tambah tolak dah rm1k..sudah jadi rm4k dah..

Everymonth spend untuk makanan di rumah (ikan,ayam,sotong,udang, bawang2,air berperisa pelbagai,maggi etc etc) maybe dekat rm400. Lunch saya sorang sebulan rm200, En.Laling pula rm200..spend belanja makan kat luar maybe more than rm200..Makanan sahaja dah rm1k..dah habis rm5k dah ni..

Mia pula..nursery dia rm260, pampers rm100, baju2 dia everymonth beli...heheh..maybe paling sikit pun saya akan spend rm100 untuk dia..medical dia pula rm500 (rotavirus+pnemococal itu sangat mahal ok)..Mia sahaja dah kena peruntukkan rm1k every month..dah habis rm6k dah ni..

Kereta ada dua..maka minyak pun kena dua juga lah..rm400 for two car..Toll maybe rm100 (kami balik kampung every week ok)..kalau pergi jalan2 dah kena tambah lagi rm100 untuk minyak n toll.Maintenance lagi..faham2 je lah kerata proton..ada je yang rosak lepas dah pakai 3 tahun..so for two cars bodoh2 pun kami berabis rm1k ..sudah rm7k ni..

Parents pula..ada 2 side..kadang2 kami belanja diorang makan luar..belanja monthly pun kami bagi..so untuk parents for both side habis rm1k juga..maka dah jadi rm8k

Saving kami tak banyak mana pun...10% je..plus main kutu lagi..so kat situ dah rm1k untuk kami berdua..sekarang belanja monthly dah jadi rm9k

Hutang piutang PTPTN lagi..uwaaaaa.....mau shopping pun tak cukup..Nak pergi spa,facial,massage pun kadang2 kena fikir 2-3kali..tapi saya tetap bersyukur..orang lain lagi teruk kan...saya terfikir nak carik xtra income..tapi tak tahu nak buat apa..nak buka online business..macam dah berlambak2 kan kan..

Sesapa nak biznes..ajak la saya sekali ye..so saya boleh spend some amount of shopping untuk diri saya every month..ekekeke

En.Laling cakap, kalau kami nak tambah anak sorang lagi..increment gaji for both of us mesti rm1k baru leh tambah anak lagi..heheheh..doakan increment gaji saya tahun ini cantik ye kawan2

2 Tags in 1 post

Nak tiru sara buat 2 tag in 1 post..
First tag ni from Amal..cekidout ya

1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?
Yes..and its kindda such a long waiting for us..7month of marriage baru conceived

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
let me think ye..of coz la..daaaaaaa


3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
Shock gila..sebab i went to clinic sebab sakit perut


4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
27


5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
End of Ramadhan..malas nak g kerja so off to clinic for mc..tapi memang ada mild sakit perut pun.then tetiba doc tanya itu ini and asked me to pee on a stick..hahah..


6.WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
En.Laling was there..so consider doc told us together..but if really who i told this big news first was my mother.


7. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
Yes..coz En.Laling want a boy and me nak girl


8. DUE DATE?
29nd May 2009


9. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN?
29th May 2009..right on my EDD..terror tak saya


10. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
3.3kgs


11. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
during the first 3months... but its kindda not dat bad pun..biasa2 je..


12. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
sate minang..hahaha


13. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
bau minyak goreng n my boss


14. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD'S SEX?
it's a girl!


15. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
nope..happy la..coz my wish had come true..en.laling ur wish tunggu next child ok


16. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
around 20kg..teroor kan..


17. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
nope. and didnt plan to hav one pn.


18. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
thr's no surprise baby shower either. hehe


19. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
alhamdulillah, nope


20. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
HPAN


21. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOUR?
10 hours


22. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
En.Laling


23. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
hubby, Dr. Kham, and 4 irritating nurses.bising gila ok nurses ni jerit2


24. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
natural


25. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
yes..the magical of epidural..


26. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
Damia Zahra


27. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
Shes 5month

Tag seterusnya ini pula from Mama Qaseh ..

5 expensive baby-related product i don't regret buying.(Definition of expensive is something priced 200 onwards)
1. Medela Swing..dah dapat return of investment pun

2. Fisher Price Newborn to toddler..boleh buat tempat tidor..boleh buat tempat makan..
3. Avent sterilizer.. bagus2
4. Graco stroller ..sangat ringan and tak bulky.Mia boleh je duduk.tidur dalam tu.
5. Safety Fits car seat..ye..sekarang ini dah jadi second bed mia dalam keta..all the way to kedah dia tidur tau

6. Babycot (lupa brand apa) ..Mia tidur disini skang..tapi sampai kul 3am je..heheh

-.5 cheap baby-related product worth buying.
(Definition of cheap is something priced 200 below)
1. Liltle Bean warmer ..murah je ni..ingat nak beli Avent..daddy senang nak warmkan breast milk

2. botol susu Mia to nursery such as MAM, First Year n Medela. (tapi ni consider botol mahal juga kan?)
3. Sweat cherry bath tup..murah saja ni tapi guna sampai skang..tak beli pun tub yang mahal2
4. Ikea bath changer
5. Baju2 rompers Mia yang from FOS..heheheh

Tapi ada few things yg beli tapi not worth buying..
1. Citystyle Medela bag (including chiller)..tak pakai pun..sebab guna bag lain.mahal tau bag ni

2. Sweat cherry Playpen..guna masa confinement kat rumah mak je..kat bangi ni dah ada babycot.
3. Adiri Botol..ye saya pengumpul pelbagai jenis botol susu..yang ni sangat cantik rega dia rm80 sebotol..hehehe..last2 tak pakai sbb dok sayang2.
4. Medela Milk shell ..konon nak kumpul susu masa tidur kan..tak pakai pun sampai skang
5. Disposable underwear..ini pun tak pakai sbb tak comfy nak pakai..dah lah beli banyak gila masa preggy dulu .ada 5 bag kut.konon time confinement tu senang la..pakai buang..takyah basuh2 if ada blood stain kat panties..tapi nan ado..

hehehe..habis dah hutang2 saya kat awak2 ye..saya taknak tag sesapala..hahahah