Alhamdulillah, after one week trial for Umar Dani babysitter,"Ibu" passed with flying colors.
At first i got 2 option for Umar Dani.
1st: Bibik..(i still wish the bibik will come soon)
2nd : Babysitter
Nursery is not an option for him..Serik lah rasa hantar baby ke nursery.
Macam2 hal.
I think Mia dulu 4x kut tukar nursery.
Sebab maid tak sampai2..i end up kawtim with one kakak.
I only talk to her on the phone.
Her voice is really motherly type.
And it ensure me that she is the reliable/trusted babysitter for my umar dani .
One week before masuk ofis.
I went to her house with Mia and Umar Dani.
Turn out i was wrong..
There are 3 babies + 3 toddler was there.
Masa i masuk rumah dia at 6pm, rumah tu gelap sangat.
suram sangat.
Ada tikar getah yang sangat usang kat garage rumah dia.
And i saw toys kat situ.so i guess the toddler will playing at the garage area.
Bukan lah nak cakap kotor area garage tu.but still tak bersih untuk kids duduk2 main toys or maybe baring2 kat situ(i saw a pillow there too)
Inside of the house pun..bukan nak cakap kotor..but the environment of the house sangat suram.
Maybe sbb tak cukup pengudaraan or cahaya from outside.
Tingkap ada satu je..
so the air is not really good for babies development.
Ada buai..but i saw one small baby.(way smaller than Umar dani)
Maybe baru habis pantang.
Tengah tidor menangkup kat tilam.
And area tu mmg tempat bebudak toddler tadi dok lari2 and lompat2.
Aduhai ngeri nye tengok..Kut2 kena himpit or whatsnot kat baby tu tadi.
Kakak tu pula was ok.
She seem to love kids and the kids love her too.
Dia ada sorang anak dara form4 yang taknak sambung belajar tolong dia jaga all the babies.
But saya tengok anak dara tadi,dia bagi baby minum susu,but mata dia tak kalih2 from TV tengok cerita indon.
Teen will always be teen.I cant never blame that,
Iam not happy with the environment inside the house.
Im not happy with the fact that kakak already have too many kids to look at,
Not happy sangat2.
Mia siap cakap kuat2 masa dalam rumah tu
"Jom go back house mommy..not nice la school adik ni"
Dalam kereta saya nangis.Sedih sangat.
Daddy kat Japan masa tu.Lagi lah saya sedih.
Penat and sakit bersalin Umar Dani pun tak lupa lagi.Mana mungkin saya nak tinggalkan dia kat situ.
Ard one week my parents datang babysit umar dani.
Sbb tak jumpa babysitter for him.
And on Thursday..saya teringat ada seorang kakak kat area banglow lot kat sungai tangkas ni jaga budak.
Dulu masa Mia baby, saya nak hantar rumah dia juga.Tapi dia taknak, sbb dah ada 4orang budak.
Lepas kerja saya pergi tengok rumah tu.
Rumah dia i tell u very the superb.
Laman sangat lah bersih macam ada gardener.
Pokok bunga banyak sangat...cantik2 pula tu.
Dalam rumah lagi la..Tak nampak lah rambut sehelai or habuk kat atas tiles,atas meja or kerusi.
Rumah besar..banyak tingkap..udara pun bersih dan nyaman.
Yelah , rumah dikelilingi dengan bunga2...so suka sangat
Alhamdulillah...dia jaga 2 orang toddler age 2y (twin)
Umar dani is the only baby there.
Rezeki umar dani.
Actually kakak ni quite old.Sebaya emak saya kut.ard 50maybe
Tapi dia panggil diri dia kat Umar Dani as Ibu.
Dia cakap baru rasa macam anak sendiri.
Now Umar Dani ada Mommy and Ibu.
I give playpen for Umar dani to sleep.
So the twins tak kacau dia.
And up until today, i can feel that my Umar Dani like to stay there.
Tak tau sebab apa,hati saya senang sangat tinggalkan anak saya kat sana.
Rasa macam tinggalkan anak kat emak.
Petang2 amik dia,atok (suami kakak tu) dok main agah2 and timang2 dia kat depan rumah.
Tapi biasalah orang tua ni banyak permintaan sket.
1. Dia tak reti pakai kan baby rompers.Maka saya kena beli baju 2 pcs for Umar Dani.
2. Hantar awal dia tak kisah, just dia mintak jangan amik lambat.Sebab dia nak ready for mosque.
Takpe2 so far, boleh consider.Boleh tutup mata aje.
Saya berdoa semoga selamat kedua2 anak saya di tangan orang yang menjaga mereka.
Saya dah carik sekolah/babysitter yang terbaik untuk mereka..yang lain saya doa dan tawakkal sahaja.
Umar Dani now consume 4ox x 5 botol kat rumah babysitter tu.
Total of 20oz kena prepare hari2.
But 3x pump kat ofis..only manage to get 15oz sahaja.
Tiap2 hari curik stock frozen.
Gunung pun rata kalau kena tarah tiap2 hari kan.
Hopefully dapat bertahan up to 6month.
Hopefully boleh selesaikan tanggungjawab saya menyusukan Umar Dani sehingga 2 tahun usinnya.
Just like what i did to kakak Mia.
Aminnn...
