Wednesday, April 7, 2010

He just 21

Hari ni first class for one group of final semester student.
Usually for first class i alwiz did ice breaking with them.
They need to present themsef as if
  1. Nick name
  2. Hometown
  3. Siblings
  4. Future Planning after GMI
  5. The first thing they want to do if they get RM1M
  6. Whats is their speciality as compare to others

Heheheh..interesting huh..hihi..But as to my suprise today..ada student yang came out with this

" My speciality is iam a husband and future daddy."

And he is only 21..OMG..he got married last year in April. His wife is a clerk and now pregnant with their first baby.Iam kindda speachless at first..haloooooo he just a boy ok.

He told us after GMI,dia akan carik kerja untuk provide enuff money for his family.As for now,only wife yang support.And after wife dia bersalin,dia akan sponsor wife dia untuk further study pula.This boy cakap dia kesian kat wife dia,walaupun wife is a scorer masa IKM dulu,siap dapat 4flat lagi,but wife kena sacrifice untuk husband turn to further study.

Its kindda so sedih when he start to tell us that their life rite now is cukup2 makan je.With a baby coming hes kindda scared to face the fact that they will need more money for that.and dia cakap lagi peoples around kinnda pandang serong to them rite now..

Saya tanya,y get married when ur noe that ur will face all of this..Boy ni cakap,dia kenal wife dah lama since from sekolah.Dia sayang wife n wife sayang dia..why wait ?hahahah..Love talk..money belakang citer huh.

I dont judge this boy..im like pandang tinggi juga sbb he brave enuff to handle resposibilities as much as this and at his very very young age ..kudos to dat..but again money is everything boy..no money no talk..no money no love..hahaha.

This boy memang nampak matured compare to others in the class..hurmmm...i do hope he will get a good job with a good pay later when he graduate this coming Mei.But with a only diploma qualification will there be enuff?He still dunno how much money when baby involve in our life..hidup husband n wife kalau tak cukup duit boleh makan maggi lagi..tapi kalau dah ada anak nanti takkan nak bagi baby makan maggi..no no ok..haaaihhh...saya mengeluh panjang memikirkan hal ini..

7 comments:

  1. OMG! muda giler!!

    dolu2 boleh lar loves is everything! nowadays jgn harap! setapak melangkah kuar dari umah jerk dah kene kuarkan duit kan....

    anyway... I doakan semoga that boy dpt keje yg bagus la.. sian pulak.. zaman skg bukan senang nak dpt keje pun.... nak2 with diploma.. degree pun cam dah tak laku jerk kann... tapi dia memang berani lah to take the challenge by getting married at the very young age & at the same time having a baby!

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  2. biasanye orang begini akan berjaya dalam studi die sebab die dah ade something in his life yang membuatkan die bersemangat (wife and anak)..semoga tuhan permudahkan jalan hidup die nanti insyaAllah sebab die buat bende yang betul dan halal..dari die buat bende tak baik elok die kawin cepat2 btul tak.

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  3. kagum!
    that so-called 'boy' muda2 dah kawen.
    aku, tua2 pun belum kawen.

    kehkehkeh.

    ada la tu rezeki diorang, dan juga baby. :)

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  4. wow easy said than done ek! i tak bape setuju dgn decision dia kawen semuda 21yrs old without planning anything. da kawen baru nak plan wats next? (for me la..)

    kawen tu bole tunggu, kalau jodoh tak kemana. bkn senang bapak still study, bini plak kena tanggung. dgn bininya yg muda mentah nak jaga anak sume..wow i cudnt imagine more! haruuu! but anyway, gud luck to him ;P

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  5. omg! mudanye tp kesian pulak. tambah2 dah nak ade baby ni, kite pon dpt rasa betapa susahnya dgn duit yg tak berapa mencukupi tu. tp muda sgt la, harap2 dpt bersabar la diorg suami isteri.
    btw,nak ur email address buleh? saya dah privatekan blog. thanks. :)

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  6. herm... 21?!! mudanya... if my little bro mek peluk cium lagi... **kagum at the same time ** zaman macam dah kembali zaman tok nenek kita dulu... yg bezanya ini adalah pilihan sendiri...

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