open house..open house

Yesterday Friday..ada 3 open house
Today Saturday... ada 3 open house+1 wedding
Tomorrow Sunday.. ada 1 open house

i lioke open houses..its the only way for me to meet up people esp the neighbours..
Nak harap hari biasa jgn haraplakn nk borak2 with the neigbours..
neighbour next door bolehla senyum2 bila nak g kerja or balik kerja..
but neigbour yang dua tiga door tu how?
petang2 lepak kat luar was their maid and the kids oni..
me myself pun balik kerja dah malas nak lepak outside..
baik baring2 gomoi Mia

So yesterday En.Laling n i went to one of our neighbour open house..Corner lot neighbour..
the funny thing is..their question to us is the same question like last year..
"Duduk rumah no. berapa?"
"kerja mana"
"nama siapa"
"asal mana"

hehehe..nampak sangat raya setahun sekali..jumpa pun setahun sekali..so mana nak ingat all the details kan..i bet next year open house pun still the same question for us to introduce ourself..

Suka open house sbb boleh makan sedap2 for free..and two things that i hate about open houses are..
one..bila dah makan sampai tak hingat hari esok tu..pastilah perut yang ala2 preggy 2month ni bertukar ke 3 month pula..mencik tau..

second is..ada sahaja la manusia yang tidak dikenali( tuan rumah/relatives of the tuan rumah) came and took Darlink Mia..and dgn berhati mulianya suruh kami makan dulu..its so fine if the people yang baik hati tu sit just next to me or place that i can see my darlink..but..lepas je soh kitaorang makan dulu..terus di bawanya darlink masuk dalam..haihhh..budget aku boleh makan dgn tenang la gitu eh..isk..tak suka betul tau..if someone i know ok la..ni nama apa pun tatau..terus2 nak bawak anak gue lari..hangin tau..

Risau pun ada..buatnya dia suap Mia makan kuih raya camne..or dia ada penyakit2 berjangkit ke..aduhai...mcm2 ku fikir..tak habis makan lagi terus ku cari Mia dalam rumah..ku curi balik anak aku itu..tak kisah la dia nak ckp i kedekut ke..risau sangat ke..yang penting anak saya depan mata..
dia nangis ke muntah ke berak ke..depan mata saya..

oklah nak siap2 g open house ni..bye peep

puji pujian bawak penyakit

Me: "Mak ..ramai org puji Mia mak..comeyla..cute la..tembamla..KFC la (adakah ini termasuk dlm kata puji pujian?)

Mak: "Tak baik org puji2 ni..nanti anak ko selalu dapat sakit..kalau org puji len kali ko kena kutuk balik"

Me: "Kutuk balik??"

Mak: "Iyo la..kalau orang cakap comeynya Mia ni..ko balas la balik..comey cam koling.."

Me: Ketawa berguling2...adakah disamakan anak ku macam koling..

Macam2 la mak ku itu..tapi sekarang Mia sakit mata..banyak tahi mata..bangun pagi tadi mata takleh nak bukak sbb tahi mata dah kering so melekat..kelopak bulu mata atas dah melekat ..sian dia..macam2 sakit dia bawak dari nursery tau..semuanya buat ku risau bagai nak rak je..

Oleh itu kawan..sila kutuk Mia pasni tau..biar dia sihat tak dapat sakit macam2..boleh ke caya cara kutukan ini..tak rugi pun try..silala kutuk..silalah

Alkisah

Yesterday i had a conversation with my boss and one of my kolik..
My boss dah divorce with his wife since last year..They had 12 years of marriage with 2 kids.
His wife ada affair with her long lost school ex-bf..which her ex pun dah kawin dah ada anak sume...
hurmmmm...
susah kan nak jumpa wife yang buat hal macam ni..
His wife is too much in love with that guy sampai sanggup asked for divorce..too much in love..too much in trouble..
She didnt even think about their 2kids..she didnt think about their 12wonderful years together..

Sedih dengar citer ni from him..he told us that his heart already broken into tiny pieces when he discovered about his wife secret love..he found their telephone bills..and even their honeymoon hotel bills..damn!!..that is so @#$%%#@..i tot oni affairs sayang-sayang..turn up real punya affair sampai tahap hotel thingy..

Believed it or not u guys..this wonderful hubby punyalah every morning send his wife to work..pick her up in the evening and go back home together..rupa rupanya wife dia buat hal..husband hantar pagi...then dia apply for leave ..spend lovie dovie time ngan bf kat hotel..then petang tunggu husband amik..macam hanjeng kan..

emo neh dengar citer boss i ni..poor him..from his story i know he was a romantic darlink to his wife..helloooo..husband i pun tak pernah saja2 belikan vintage set pinggang mangkuk utk i ok...
romantik tak romantik nya orang ini..

Selalu dengar citer husband yang buat hal..tapi this time sang isteri pula buat hal..his wife give reason dat she already bored with her life with him..she wanna try other thing..she dont want to be just a wife and a mother..but she wanna be whore also..heheh (dats is from me)..

And now when my boss already get his life back..dah settle down as a singgle parents..out of nowhere his ex whore come to get him back..hanjeng tak hanjeng nye pompuan itu..tetiba nak pujuk balik..tetiba suruh boss i ingat kat anak2..tetiba nak mintak kunci rumah nak tolong masak and kemas..isk..muka tembok betul..i think dia dah kena dumped ngan bf dia kut..tu yang dah nyesal habis tu..
My boss said it is no way for him to accept her back..hati dah pecah seribu..poor him kan.

Kenapa eh sampai hatinya seorang perempuan tuh buat sampai camneh skali..tak kisah la how bad their hubby is..but to have another affair tu macam tak logic..tak ingat tuhan kah?tak ingat dosa kah?yang penting tak ingat anak2 ke?once anak2 dah besar nanti sure dia tanya ayah dia..
"ayah ,nape ceraikan mama"
"mama ko ada jantan lain"

i pray to god that i will be a loyal wife to my hubby forever..he may not be the perfect husband..but he is everything to me now..
kenapa eh hati perempuan boleh berubah macam ni sekali?

Shopping is the best therapy

yeayyy..mood sudah ok..sadah tidak mandom2 lagi..huehue..
i went to Mid Valley yesterday with En.Laling n Darlink Mia..
Purpose: Find mommy new clothes...

This time no more Mia's dress or toys anymore..mommy nak balas dendam..
I bought 2 pcs dress from MNG and 2 pcs shirt from Dorothy Perkins..
and today without prewash pun..i wore one of those to work..harharhar..
and i feel really good about myself..jalan dada ke depan..and keep my head straingt..chewahh..

To make my day even more brighter..one of my office mate said i look like Amber Chia..slim+tall and slander...toing toing
wahhh...kembang semangkuk montot ku tau..wakakaka...
Takpe la muka tak macam Amber Chia pun takpe dapat body mcm dia pun dah kira manyak syok ooo..

Maybe because of the dress make me more slander today..perut tetap maintain 2 bulan..hahahah..
happy saya dengan pujian itu..walaupun hakikatnya saya dan diri saya yang tahu ia tidak benar..

7.5kg at 4month

At 4month My darlink Mia alreadyweight 7.5kg..
0.5kg increment compare to last month..not so much..mb sbb dia dah makin lasak kut..

Today Mia got her first Rotavirus and her first pneumocaccal vaccine..
Schedule for her next appointment is as below

5month Rotavirus second dose
3 serangkai third dose+Hep B third dose

6month Pneumococcal vaccine second dose

8month Pneumococcal vaccine third dose

10month Pneumococcal vaccine fourth dose

Hopefully she will be in good condition forever..mommy already took all the precautions to avoid anything from her..so skang tawakkal n doa semoga sihat anak mommy neh..

esok sabtu..ada 4 open house invitation..aduhai...diet plan kena delay lg la nampaknya..heheh
have a good weekend k..

Syukur

Thanks babe..for all your kindness advice..i tot iam the only one mommy who suffered with all the stress..turn up its normal for all us to feel that way..

Yelah with new responsibility as a mother plus with the "not so new" responsibility as a wifey to carry on..it really not easy..

Just imagine for 26years iam my mothers'baby..i depend everything on her..doin my laundry..cook for me..clean up the house..etc etc....when i ready to work.. breakfast is already ready for me..when i get back to work..dinner already served on the table...so heaven

i got married at the age of 27..and with a new house to handle..i just felt so restless..and after 6 month of marriage ive been bless with a tiny tot inside of me..10 month later..here it comes my lil Darlink Mia..so the journey of the restless life is non stop..penat..i have to handle everythig from A-Z..plus with new baby..sape tak culture shock kan..

So what i can do for now is just to say alhamdullilah for everything..dari complaint tak sudah..dari ini tak kena..itu tak betul..sampai bila..

I complaint i dont have time for myself coz Mia tend to have her separation anxiety issue..
But to think about it..bersyukurnya saya sebab dikurniakan my Mia..orang lain dok tunggu sampai 4-5years still belum ada rezeki lagi..mcm mana kalau saya tak pregnant2 lagi..tentu saya sangat sedih..dok sorang2 kat rumah sambil tunggu En.Laling balik..balik kampung orang dok tanya bila..bila..bila..mesti saya tension juga..nangis bila period datang..takmoo la

I complaint En.Laling selalu balik lewat..complaint he dont spend much time with me and Mia....how could i be that fool.. i used to work in Sony before..same department..same area..same bosses..i should know how stress it is..i should know how late the normal working period there...isk..i should be more understand..
Orang lain husband kerja kapal..lagi la pulak..3bulan tak jumpa..ni En.Laling setiap malam pun dia balik rumah..

I complaint of En.Laling cycling activity..its better for hiM to have those activity..dari dia menggatal dengan perempuan lain..dari dia ada activity night clubbing..or etc..

I complaint i dont have time to clean up the house..i complaint iam tired...why should i..i work like half day everyday..imagin people who work 8-5pm everyday...they still alive..they dont complaint like i did..how about if iam still in Sony..working from 9.30am tp 10pm everyday..how can i be not so so grateful about that?

I complaint iam fat..but at the end i do have my darlink Mia to make my life a complete one eventho out of shape skek...so its noone to blame except for myself..

For that i feel so grateful of having my life rite now..i know i cant be that supermom..noone could ever be one..mesti ada salah silap here and there..mesti ada sedikit tak sempurn nya..
Nobody perfect...and i know now that iam not..

Happy Friday people..

saya dah ok...

Iam ok already today..
Yesterday i took emergency leave due to critical depression..heheh..
I send Darlink to her nursery and off to tradisional massage...best gila..
Makcik tuh bilang(kenapa tetiba bahasa indon ini)..banyak urat2 dah tegang..badan saya banyak angin..
And to my suprised she said my peranakan dah jatuh..
Apsal eh boleh jatuh..dulu bidan kampung urut dah..nape leh jatuh balik..
Siyes sakit gila bila makcik tu nak naikkan balik..
tetiba jadi takut sbb ini..takpe2 bulan depan ku pergi lagi..

Lepas urut rasa fresh je..namapun urut hilang stresskan..
baguslah makcik ni banyak citer petua2..esp yg 18sx..mcm mana nak jaga toottt..mcm mana nak buat husband sayang..etctec..tidak sesuai dibincangkan disini..sapa mau tau..sila email saya..ekeke
makcik ni dok kat Taman Universiti Sungai Tangkas..tempat parents Sara...hehehe

After massage i get my facial pula..ohhwww best best...lega sket..and saturday En.Laling promised to bring me to shop from top to toe for my befday present..maka harusla saya gembira dan tidak stress lagi..ekekek..

Selingan tepek gambar Darlink Mia..half naked..ekekek...nampak mcm dia tgh happily karaoke kan..mind the hair..org baru bangun tido and ready for her favourite shower time

"I love u..U love me..We are happy family..
With a great big hug and kiss from me to u..
Wont you say u love me too...."

Oh ye i nak buat public appology to all mommy yang terasa with my previous post (cite pasal mak tu)..esp to those yang dont have the appoturnity to fully bf their baby due to some reason..dont feel bad about ursef k.
I am not people yang pro bf gegila punya..i dont judge people who dont bf their baby..
Its ur own choice mommy...and i know...all mothers want the bestest for their children kan..
If we cant give them best option (breastmilk)..iam sure we would try to give them the second best option..
sure kita belikan susu formula yang paling mahal yang paling bagus ..tul tak..

Mia dulu masa her second day of life..she took formula also..my milk isnt enuff for her..i still remember how daddy keluar rumah with his motor just to buy Mia a formula..Mia nangis non stop..Then hujan lebat gila pula tu..naik moto lagi..i was worried to death dat time..apatah Mia yang nangis ..apatah daddy tak balik2..
Bila daddy balik..dia cerita dia terlanggar burung..burung tu out from nowhere langar topi keledar dia..and terus mati katak..aduhaii..daddy ckp banyak gila susu tepung kat kedai tu..tak tau dia nak pilih mana satu..end up dia pilih yang paling mahal..satu tin kecik gila harga rm55..Enfalac kut..i pun dah lupa..

See..even daddy pun tau pick second best option for his baby..apatah lagi kita kaum ibu..
so to all of u..thousand appology from me ok..