Tentang kakak Mia

Saya dah balik ke rumah di Bangi minggu ni.
Baru 36days.
Cuba cuba untuk berpantang sendiri di rumah.
Kakak Mia pergi school with daddy now.Tapi balik nanti mommy and adik datang ambil.

Before delivered dulu saya asyik takut2 mcm mana lah keadaan beranak dua?
Now i know already.
And trust me it hard.And theres a time that i feel i wanna quit.
Quit from what?quit being the mother of my 2 beautiful kids.

Susah sbb apa?
Sebab my 3years old baby girl adalah sangat2 rapat dengan saya.
So she only want her mommy to do everything for her.
This including feeding,bathing, susu-ing ,pakai baju and etc.
Adik pula memang lah satu2 cara utk pujuk dia adalah boobs.
Mommy juga yang perlu disisi dia.
Selalu sangat lah, masa saya bf adik,kakak duduk atas riba.
Imagine je lah macam mana rasa.
Macam mana nak berpantang dengan aman.
Dulu masa Mia lahir,dia tido saya tido.Now, Umar Dani tdo, saya still kena entertain kakak.Macam mana tak panda eyes ni jadi macam hantu mak limah eyes.

Kakak wont let me alone with the baby.
Or alone with myself.
Mana2 saya pergi dia ikut.Pegang kain lagi.
Pergi toilet shower dia tunggu depan pintu.Nak berak pun dia nak masuk.
Nak berbenkung pun dia ada.Nak sapu2 ubat luka kat toot pun dia tgk.
Sampai satu tahap saya rasa rimas sangat dengan kakak.
But still kesabaran itu ada.
Dulu pun dia ikut saya juga.Dulu pun dia memang tak boleh tdo selagi mommy tak peluk.Masakan boleh dia hidup sorang2 tanpa mommy.
Saya beristigfar sekejap,kenapalah saya boleh rasa rimas dengan si kakak.
Padahal sayalah segala buat dia.
Kat kampung Mia susah nak tdo.Kakak tak tdo,adik pun tak tdo,sbb kakak bising jerit2,nyanyi lah.So lagi pening kepala saya.

Kakak sayang adik sangat2.
Kiss bertalu2 sampai adik rimas.
And ada masa dia geram, gigit juga.Cucuk juga sana sini.
She loves her adik, but still she loves her mommy more.
Saya cuba bersungguh2 untuk tidak buat dia rasa left out.
Saya cuba untuk tunjukkan kat dia yang saya utamakan dia than adik.

Like everytime she want mommy, i will pass adik to daddy.
Adik will be daddy's boy.
Sebab adik kena mengalah dengan kakak yang super manja.

Saya tak bagi orang marah kat kakak if kakak buat adik or whatsnot.
Talk to her nicely.let her know why she cannot cucuk adik or lompat2 dekat2 dgn adik.And not to say that it works so far. But i hope one day she understand.

I told her everyday that Mia is my baby no.1
And Umar Dani is my baby no.2
Both i love so much..
Than kakak Mia will ask me.."who is mommy baby no.8"
Mommy:so many baby?mommy only have 2 babies..Mia and Umar.
Mia : Daddy la..daddy baby mommy no.8.

heheheh..sian daddy..baru anak 2, dah jatuh no.8 kan..

Officially mother of 2

Assalammualaikum to everyone..

Dah more than one month me tak update blog.

Reason?

Iam officially mother of 2 now.

Hehehe.

24th Jan 2012

My baby dragon,My baby mechatron, My liltle Arjuna

popped himself at 7.53pm.

I could say it wasnt an easy one..but compare to the first one it is.

Around 12pm that day a bloody show appeared.

And it is a liltle expected for me to deliver that day, because that previous night i already had 3cm opening.

Reach KPMC Kajang ard 2pm and it is already 4cm opening.

Still no contraction pain.

Until the doc decided to induce and broke the water.

At 2.30pm the pain was so unbearable.

Sakit sangat..and now dah tak ingat how sakit is that sakit sangat.

I asked for the happydural AGAIN this time.

Eventho the doc advice me not to because it is already 4cm.

But being me,yang sangat tak tahan sakit.silalah cucuk skang.

At 3.30, walla..no more pain.

i can sleep like an angel.

Waakakakaka..

At 7pm full opening.And iam ready to push.

Masa Mia dulu kena di bantu dgn vacum sbb tak reti nak push.

But this time i push like a pro.

3 push and the baby out.

Alhamdulillah sihat and sempurna lahirnya seorang lagi umat Nabi Muhammad s.a.w

Umar Dani bin Mohammad Zuhardy

3.5kg

55cm length.

(2cm taller than kakak and 0.2kg heavier than kakak)

Week 3 Activities (39th week Mommy)

January : Week 3

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1. Fine motor skills activity

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2.0utdoor activity (everyday if weather ok)

The main reason mia susah nk ajak blk petang2.

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3. Plants watering
sudah menampakkan hasil

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4. Iqra' with opah sarah

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5.Caloring activity

6. Teacher-mama slot with me.

Will try to make another post about this later

7. Free outdoor activity..aka tiru perut mommy

basah kuyup dgn peluh

Laga2 perut lagi

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8. Tulisan Khat

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9. Liltle Einstein Activity

10.Junior Masterchef : Making sirap bandung

Put sirap first

Then put susu

Then put water

Stir all the ingredients together

yummehhhh

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11.Show andTell

Its Mia's turn and she brought the donkey and the cat.

showing off her toys

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12. English class withe Teacher Rsjesh

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13. Teacher mama slot with mama irfan-irdina

Art and Craft activity

Everybody happy with their sun..

So many activities kan...

Mia suka mommy setuju.

But i think this will be her last week at school.

Mommy dah 3cm opening.

Mia kena teman mommy berpantang kat kampong ya.

You will see all ur friends back in March.

Syukur Lil Arjuna bagi mommy chance habiskan exam.

Good boy my lil fighter.

If there is no more post after this,mean saya dah bersalin lah tu.

Doakan ye mommies for both baby and mommy in a good heathy condition.

Cant wait to see my Dragon Baby.

From Mia Zahra binti Daddy

Hi daddy..Mia ni..

Mia nak sampai kan pesanan mommy kat daddy.

Mommy cakap dia penat lah basuh baju-then kena sidai baju-then kena angkat baju-then kena lipat lagi-pastu Mia sepah2 kan balik-then kena lipat semula.

Skang ni pun mommy kena basuh baju 2 hari sekali.

Yerlah baju Mia je 3 pasang kat school-2 pasang kat rumah.

Baju daddy lagi, sehari 2 pasang.

Mommy je berjimat cermat pakai baju sepasang je sehari.

Lepas ni ada baby lagi lah kena basuh setiap hari.

Mia kesian tengok mommy.

Takde orang tolong dia.

Mia nak tolong lipat..tapi mommy cakap tak cantik.

So..sempena mommy dah masuk 39th week pregnant anak daddy no.2 ni.

Apa kata daddy hadiahkan mommy bendalah kat bawah ni.

Mashine Dryer

Senang mommy nanti tau daddy.

Lepas mommy basuh baju dlm washine mashine, terus mommy masuk kan baju tu dalam dryer ni.

So 2 kerja mommy dah settle.

Tak payah nak sidai baju

Tak payah nak angkat baju.

Lepas masuk dryer, terus kering , terus leh pakai or lipat.

Or sumbat2 dalam almari.

Daddy belikan tau.Kesian mommy daddy.

Mia and mommy sayang daddy sangat2.

Muahhhhh.....

Yang benar,

Mia Zahra binti Daddy

Shopping is the best therapy

Bed rest - Bed Rest juga
Study-study juga
Tensen-tensen juga.
Kenalah ada ubat nya kan.
Kalau tak dapat ubat macam mana nak baik.
Ekekekeke.
Tak dapat keluar takpe..
Jalan2 shopping online pun sudah jadi ubat terbaek buat mak buyong like me.

Warehouse tengah ada sales skang
Makanya..apa lagi..cepat2 email Lily..
Tak dapat pakai skang takpe.
Barang pun sampai 3-4 weeks lagi.
Boleh la bergaya lepas pantang nanti.
Kata lepas pantang nak turun one size kan..
Kena lah start mengorder.

Like like like..

Color pink dia sangat cantik..

Tersuka pula..maka terbeli

Jumpsuits.

Tak pernah ada lagi..tgk model pakai cantik je.

Maka untuk jadi secantik model ini, haruslah kan saya try.

Mak buyong kali ni gila shopping barang sendiri.

Baby boy lah katakan.

Nak beli accesorries untuk boy macam takde je.

Maka haruslah beli untuk mommy dia sebagai ganti.

hehehe.

Oklah saya mahu sambung study.

Masih lagi sihat harini.

Cuma takleh bawak berjalan sangat.

Start sakit2 dah.

Kepala baby dah turun sangat2 kut.

DOA-TAWAKKAL-STUDY

Aminnnnn

(lepas shop shop..terus mood jadi ok kan..betullah orang cakap, shopping is the best therapy)

39th week

Fuhhh...fuhhh...last night 39th week checked up at KPMC..

Baby dah engaged!..

and sudah ada opening.

uwaaaaaaaaaaa...

But doc cakap, selagi tak sakit, opening tu didnt meant that im goin to deliver so soon.

Normal untuk second pregnancy.

I asked the doctor whether baby can wait until Saturday or not.

Doctor pun tak leh nak confirm.Kuasa Allah semuanya kan.

BUT,

Doc gave me 5days MC for this week.

She asked me to bed rest..

Duduk diam2..

And study atas katil for my last paper this coming Saturday.

Its so stressful.

Jadinya menangis..mengamuk secara tetiba.

I cannot control myself anymore.

Tetiba marah kat husband, sbb dia yang suruh sambung study dulu.

Tetiba marah kat Mia sebab dia tak boleh nak duduk diam.

Tetiba nangis depan PC.

Macam orang gilak.

But seriously i tell u its so stressful if ur guys in my shoes.

U want to study, but u afraid that maybe baby will come sooner.

So why waste the time to study?wakak..

Kan ke best just tidor golek2 atas katil.

Kan ke best bermalas malasan sambil tunggu "the day"

At the same time..u just cannot lazy'ing around.

Buatnya baby can wait.

Abistu sabtu nak jawab apa?

Owhhh..

Sometimes i hope baby can wait for my last paper.

So i can focus on him after that.

But in my dark moment yesterday..i just hope the baby come out pagi ni.

So tak payah susah2 nak fikir sempat ke tak sempat.

Iam tired of wondering of sempat/tak sempat everyday..

Its been 3weeks already,like this.

Iam just tired of waiting.

I lost my mojo to study.

Dah takde semangat rasanya.

But 30% in me is still ada otak nak fikir.

Still rasa if i give up now..it will be too wasteful for all the time that i should spend with Mia and Daddy.

Penat je i tinggalkan both of them on wiken..

Penat je my parents came over to my house to babysit Mia when daddy have to go to work on saturday.

But in the end..no good result.

Tak ke membazir.

Baiklah..sikit je lagi ..

Sikit je lagi..

5 more days baby..

U can do it..hold on tight..

Ok..saya dengar arahan doctor..bed rest dulu..

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

Kejap2 lagi baru study on the bed..

Lawak hari isnin

Dalam kelas, matapelajaran Matematik Permulaan, cikgu tadika bertanyakan soalan..
"Ada 3 ekor burung di atas pokok.. Seekor ditembak pemburu, berapa ekor lagi baki yg tinggal di atas pokok?"

Ramli angkat tangan dan jawab,
"Kosong cikgu".
"Kenapa kosong Ramli?" tanya cikgu.
"Sebab 2 ekor lagi tu mesti laa terbang lari cikgu."
"hmm salah tu Ramli! Jawapan yg betul tentulah 2, 3 tolak 1 sama dengan 2..
Tapi cikgu suka cara kamu berfikir"..kreatif' ..tambah cikgu tu lagi

Ketika waktu rehat, Cikgu belanja Ramli makan aiskrim. Sambil menikmati aiskrim yg dihadiahkan oleh Cikgu nya itu, Ramli tetiba bertanya, ..

"Cikgu.., ada 3 orang perempuan makan aiskrim. Satu tu makan dgn style telan semua sekaligus, satu lagi gigit sikit2, dan satu lagi jilat keliling dulu dan kulum aiskrim sampai habis. Cuma satu je antara tiga tu yang dah kawin, yang mana satu cikgu?"..

Tergamam cikgu dengan soalan Ramli. tapi cuba berlagak neutral cikgu pun jawab:
"Yang jilat keliling dulu dan kulum aiskrim sampai habis tu la kot.."..

"Salah cikgu.. yang ade pakai cincin laa yang dah kahwin... Tapi takpe, saya suka cara cikgu berfikir".. kreatif.. huhuh...Ramli, Ramli..