Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Tentang Daddy Mia and Umar

Daddy sangat happy with the new edition in our family.
Nak nak lagi baby boy.Boleh lah geng dia main bola and main basikal nanti.

But daddy juga selalu jadi tempat mommy lepaskan geram.
Kesian kat daddy.
Kalau kakak nakal, kacau adik.
Kalau kakak and adik takmo tdo
Kalau saya rasa letih and stress sangat jaga anak2 kat kampung.
Or kalau panas sangat kat kampung tu
Mesti daddy yang jadi sasaran marah saya.

Daddy selalu cakap "orang yang lemah and sedang sakit,syaitan selalu hasut yang bukan2..istigfar byk2..Bersyukur lah sbb kita dikurniakan zuriat yang sihat sempurna. Kata itu doa.Sabar lah sket"

And saya selalu rasa, daddy tak rasa apa yang saya rasa
Sakit bersalin.Penat badan.
Saya masa tu rasa daddy senang lenang je kat rumah.saya je sorang2 yang merana.
Takde lah tak tdo malam jaga anak semua.
Betul lah kut syaitan selalu hasut fikiran orang2 yang tgk sakit.
Orang yang lemah iman kat hati.

Alhamdulillah suami saya sabar dengan karenah saya selama 37hari ni.
Buatnya dia naik darah dengan saya..habis lah kan..

Daddy tak pandai lagi jaga Umar.
Still pelik tgk dia pegang adik.setiap kali dia pegang adik,mesti dia tanya saya betul ke tak?heheh..daddy adalah comel.

Every weekend daddy takkan miss balik kampung tengok saya dan anak2.Tolong jaga Mia yang ngada2.Mandikan Mia, basuh berak Mia,Buat susu Mia.Pakai baju Mia.Bawak Mia pergi jalan2.Alhamdulillah..cuma kerja rumah je daddy tak pandai nak buat.

Saya nak amik bibik..tapi daddy tak nak.Tak privacy katanya.
Dia suruh cuba dulu,and dia dah janji nak tolong.
Lepas ni kalau rumah semak jangan bising ."i got two hands only"
Saya ni bukan setakat bekerja weekdays, wiken ada master class.Anak ada dua.Wiken maid kadang2 saya amik.Just that saya still kena monitor kerja wiken maid ni.Kena juga tolong sket2.

This week ada good news buat daddy kat office.
Masyukkk...and alhamdulillah rezeki baby.
Congrates daddy for that.
Mommy, kakak and adik so proud of u.

Daddy, just for you to know.
You may not the perfect daddy in the world.
But you are the best daddy in our heart.
We love you so much daddy

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Tentang kakak Mia

Saya dah balik ke rumah di Bangi minggu ni.
Baru 36days.
Cuba cuba untuk berpantang sendiri di rumah.
Kakak Mia pergi school with daddy now.Tapi balik nanti mommy and adik datang ambil.

Before delivered dulu saya asyik takut2 mcm mana lah keadaan beranak dua?
Now i know already.
And trust me it hard.And theres a time that i feel i wanna quit.
Quit from what?quit being the mother of my 2 beautiful kids.

Susah sbb apa?
Sebab my 3years old baby girl adalah sangat2 rapat dengan saya.
So she only want her mommy to do everything for her.
This including feeding,bathing, susu-ing ,pakai baju and etc.
Adik pula memang lah satu2 cara utk pujuk dia adalah boobs.
Mommy juga yang perlu disisi dia.
Selalu sangat lah, masa saya bf adik,kakak duduk atas riba.
Imagine je lah macam mana rasa.
Macam mana nak berpantang dengan aman.
Dulu masa Mia lahir,dia tido saya tido.Now, Umar Dani tdo, saya still kena entertain kakak.Macam mana tak panda eyes ni jadi macam hantu mak limah eyes.

Kakak wont let me alone with the baby.
Or alone with myself.
Mana2 saya pergi dia ikut.Pegang kain lagi.
Pergi toilet shower dia tunggu depan pintu.Nak berak pun dia nak masuk.
Nak berbenkung pun dia ada.Nak sapu2 ubat luka kat toot pun dia tgk.
Sampai satu tahap saya rasa rimas sangat dengan kakak.
But still kesabaran itu ada.
Dulu pun dia ikut saya juga.Dulu pun dia memang tak boleh tdo selagi mommy tak peluk.Masakan boleh dia hidup sorang2 tanpa mommy.
Saya beristigfar sekejap,kenapalah saya boleh rasa rimas dengan si kakak.
Padahal sayalah segala buat dia.
Kat kampung Mia susah nak tdo.Kakak tak tdo,adik pun tak tdo,sbb kakak bising jerit2,nyanyi lah.So lagi pening kepala saya.

Kakak sayang adik sangat2.
Kiss bertalu2 sampai adik rimas.
And ada masa dia geram, gigit juga.Cucuk juga sana sini.
She loves her adik, but still she loves her mommy more.
Saya cuba bersungguh2 untuk tidak buat dia rasa left out.
Saya cuba untuk tunjukkan kat dia yang saya utamakan dia than adik.

Like everytime she want mommy, i will pass adik to daddy.
Adik will be daddy's boy.
Sebab adik kena mengalah dengan kakak yang super manja.

Saya tak bagi orang marah kat kakak if kakak buat adik or whatsnot.
Talk to her nicely.let her know why she cannot cucuk adik or lompat2 dekat2 dgn adik.And not to say that it works so far. But i hope one day she understand.

I told her everyday that Mia is my baby no.1
And Umar Dani is my baby no.2
Both i love so much..
Than kakak Mia will ask me.."who is mommy baby no.8"
Mommy:so many baby?mommy only have 2 babies..Mia and Umar.
Mia : Daddy la..daddy baby mommy no.8.

heheheh..sian daddy..baru anak 2, dah jatuh no.8 kan..

Monday, February 27, 2012

Officially mother of 2

Assalammualaikum to everyone..

Dah more than one month me tak update blog.

Reason?


Iam officially mother of 2 now.

Hehehe.


24th Jan 2012

My baby dragon,My baby mechatron, My liltle Arjuna

popped himself at 7.53pm.

I could say it wasnt an easy one..but compare to the first one it is.


Around 12pm that day a bloody show appeared.

And it is a liltle expected for me to deliver that day, because that previous night i already had 3cm opening.

Reach KPMC Kajang ard 2pm and it is already 4cm opening.

Still no contraction pain.

Until the doc decided to induce and broke the water.

At 2.30pm the pain was so unbearable.

Sakit sangat..and now dah tak ingat how sakit is that sakit sangat.


I asked for the happydural AGAIN this time.

Eventho the doc advice me not to because it is already 4cm.

But being me,yang sangat tak tahan sakit.silalah cucuk skang.

At 3.30, walla..no more pain.

i can sleep like an angel.

Waakakakaka..


At 7pm full opening.And iam ready to push.

Masa Mia dulu kena di bantu dgn vacum sbb tak reti nak push.

But this time i push like a pro.

3 push and the baby out.

Alhamdulillah sihat and sempurna lahirnya seorang lagi umat Nabi Muhammad s.a.w



Umar Dani bin Mohammad Zuhardy

3.5kg

55cm length.

(2cm taller than kakak and 0.2kg heavier than kakak)