Iam in my 31st week of pregnancy.Next week dah 8month..so fast
Still strong like a fox..
Just this time selalu rasa terik and berat kat waist area and punggung selalu cramped.
Dunno why.
Maybe not as big as last time..but still big.
At this moment of pregnancy..i hate the pity look from people on me.
Kalau saya naik beratur..org mesti pandang lain macam.
Like very the sadis lah org pregnant beratur.
ok i admit..i love the treatment for pregnant lady, but i hate the look.
Like..gila kasihan la jadi org pregnant ni.
Im just pregnant..and im carry someone special inside my tummy.
So i dont mind people.please lah dont give me that kind of look.
Menyampah pula kadang2.
Let say if i used the stairs instead of the lift..people will alwiz question "larat ke?" "kang terberanak kan"
Arghhh..benci nya..i know la my limit..
Thats all for today..just tak suka the kesian look on me...
Monday, November 21, 2011
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Scissors for paper craft..(Really worth to buy)
New items in da house.
Colorful scissors for paper craft activities.
6 pcs of scissors.6 different pattern of cutting shape.
Can be used for kids craft activity.And also for adults to make handmade party favour and such.
RM25/sets
RM25/sets
Add RM6 for postage.
Interested?
Just email me at
Adengan di suatu hari
"Mommy dont scared ok..Mommy hug Mia"
" Nanti we go to pool ok..mommy dont scared"
"Waaaaa..very high..Mommy scared ke?"
"erkkkk"
"Uuuuuuuuhhhh"
"uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa"
Alamak..sape yang takut..sape yang nangis ni.Adengan ni berlaku di atas cable car Langkawi last month.
Tak sempat nak update gambar cuti2 Langkawi lagi..
Saya memang very very scared of height.
Fikir 2-3 kali masa nak naik cable car yang super tinggi tu.
Tapi sbb nak bawak Mia so buat2 berani.
Last2 dia yang nangis.
Sangat kelakar ok.
Memula berlagak hebat..siap pujuk saya nak pergi pool ke tak.
End up dia yang nangis.
Monday, November 14, 2011
What should i expect Mia will learn for another6 more month?
I emailed the principal of Smart Chaliph yesterday. I really want to know what should i expect Mia will learn for another 6 more month?.
Salam Teacher,
So to decide nak continue or not at smart chaliph next year, is still under consideration.Just nak tanya lah..for 2.5years kid what are the actual sylibus in smart chaliph.
This is due to, for the past 5month Mia in smart chaliph i dont see any improvement on her.She still sing the same songs that i teach her before or from Taska Jari Kecil.No new songs from smart chalih that she learn for the past 5 month.Ok..i admitted that she can color better now compare to before.
To know my dotter she can pick up very well whateva that people teach her.She know about colors and shape since she was 2 years old.
So its kindda dissapointed me coz she seem dont get anything from smart chaliph.
Just my curiosity right now..if i continue her in smart chaliph for another 6 more month..What should i expect that she will learn?
Thank you,
Regards,
Siti
And this morning, this what i received from the principal.Apart from comfortiong me and such..she did blame mia and me for that...u guys should read it and judge.
Salam..
PN Siti,
“What should i expect that she will learn?”
Just to brief you a little bit about the program at SC. actually before parent enroll their child, they will be guided to understand our syllabus that has been prepared for 2.5 – 6 yrs.
If you aware, every morning during assembly time, the teacher will on cd that consist Asma’al-Husna, Negaraku song & 1 Malaysia song. Next, the teacher will sing a phonics song ‘Ants on the Apple’. The purpose of this phonics song is to expose the child before they start learns how to read (by age 4yr).
Based on my experience since 2002 with early childhood education, the child will get something after 2 months with our program. I hope you will try to identify what actually Mia got from new school. It is impossible if you said she gets nothing and still sing the same song that you teach her before or from Taska Jari Kecil. There is something lacking….Have you check are you really follow our program such as come to school on time? How often Mia miss the class? Its sound simple but it will affect the mood & routine of the children. As I notice Mia will refused when teacher wants to change her diapers or shower her. As we have same objective towards our child, I would say, we have to discuss from time to time how to develop and support them, not to put the blame to school or teacher or make our child as a sample to find out which is the best kindergarten for them.
We are not like other school or method, like smart reader (focusing on reading only). Our program emphasizes on the development of the whole aspects in our kids, we called it Syumul in Islam.
Throughout my observation, I agreed that Mia is a fast learner but has a short concentration span. But at this stage, she needs to be prepared with Montessori environment in order to be normalized child (e.g. love of order, love of work, self-disciplined etc.).
For your information, we will let the child age 2.5 – 4yrs to play with the apparatus and socialize with others in harmony + doing hands on activity such as art & craft. We have an area called Exercise of Practical Life. This curriculum will develop motor skills and co-ordination, as well as enriching her vocabulary. Socially, too, new skills are developed as she gradually becomes more aware of other people’s needs. In our program, we emphasize more on playing with other children to develop social skills. It can also encourage learning and develop concentration too.
At this age, please don’t focus more on academic and always question ‘when she will read & write’. The time will come later when she is ready.
We can’t fulfill all the parent’s needs. We hope with the program that we provide is able to help parents nowadays in bringing up children in a complex and rapidly changing world. Insya-Allah, if you really follow what we have plan to our child, you can see the result (at 6 yr).
Yang baik itu semuanya drp Allah s.w.t.
Truly,
Teacher Eshah
Principal
What???...The result will only can be seen at 6 years old..thats mean 3.5years to go..Saya bukanlah nak bergadoh dgn the principal or such..i really want to know, what she actually learn from school.Compare to Jari Kecil before,.I can hear she sings new song each time i come and fetch her. Ok, i got to admit , that Mia had difficulty to wake up at early in the morning. Apart from 8am, i usually send her to school at 9.30am..She need her 12hours sleep too.Tak sampai hati tak kejutkan dia awal2.
Then..i reply back to the teacher..
Salam to your teacher eshah..
1. Yes she still sang the same old songs that TJK teach her.(This is also agreed by my others colleage that send their children to sc as early 8am)..No more new songs for our kids.
2. 2.5 years old toddler focus time is only 5-10 min.So what do you mean by lack of focusing? If she is really that lacking..iam sure she wont sit still when i read her 2-3 books every morning and night. And i did so many activities at home with her..finger painting, coloring, puzzle and such..and i know she can focus up to 15-20 min each time.This is consider good for 2.5years old.
So please explain more on lack of focusing term..
3. I dont expect at this age she will learn or know ABC or 123 ..But at least she get sumtin or learn sumtin from the school.And i really want to know what..As promised before Mia joined SC, the teachers said they will do potty training for the kids.And iam sure the promises is no where to be found yet.
4.Talking about craft and art..the only thing she bring back home is the scrabble from plain paper.Maybe the teachers keep the whateva that Mia's did in a file..can i go and see the file today.I will come on 5.30-6pm today.Hope i can meet you and we can discussed about this in details.
5. She really dont have any problem to shower (she love shower) or changing her pampers at home.Maybe she need a liltle comforting from the teacher to do so.
6. Yes i admit i alwiz send her late between (10-11am)..and iam sure she missed the assembly time, cd'ing time and of coz the phonic song.Later of the day..do you have any other activities for her? I will try to send her as early as 8.30am (complete with shower and "neat and tidy looking") start from tomorrow. And i will monitor for any changes compare to before..She have another 2 more month before next year..
7. I did asked the previous teacher in sc..about the learning activities for the kids..and this is her reply to me (tru fb)
" Kalau nak jaga Mia, akak jgn risau kitaorang boleh jaga dengan baik.Tapi bila tahap untuk mengajar bebudak the teachers kat sini takde proper training lagi..setakat jaga dia sampai petang insyaalah takde apa yang akak patut risau"
Is that true?what does she mean by no proper training?
Thank you for the prompt reply.I dont blame sc 100%..in fact i really love for Mia to stay in SC..apart very close to my house, and i love the ideas of education toys for her stage. But when it comes to the result, as a parents i really want to see sumtin. You are parents too..dont you want to see your children leard sumtin knew everyday.
Regards,
Siti
Am i a bad parents for expecting too much from the school..I paid RM360 every month to the school..is it wrong for me to put high expectation on Mia to learn sumtin from there. I leave my baby for 8 hours at school..and i only have 4 more hours to spend with her everyday. So i really want she learn new stuff at school during the 8hours without me.
If it comes to my baby, i alwiz make sure she will received the best. And i dont care if i really need to fight for it.Or will it do any good if i keep changing her to a new school?Am i demanding too much..or is that what mommy will alwiz do for our kids?
Salam Teacher,
So to decide nak continue or not at smart chaliph next year, is still under consideration.Just nak tanya lah..for 2.5years kid what are the actual sylibus in smart chaliph.
This is due to, for the past 5month Mia in smart chaliph i dont see any improvement on her.She still sing the same songs that i teach her before or from Taska Jari Kecil.No new songs from smart chalih that she learn for the past 5 month.Ok..i admitted that she can color better now compare to before.
To know my dotter she can pick up very well whateva that people teach her.She know about colors and shape since she was 2 years old.
So its kindda dissapointed me coz she seem dont get anything from smart chaliph.
Just my curiosity right now..if i continue her in smart chaliph for another 6 more month..What should i expect that she will learn?
Thank you,
Regards,
Siti
And this morning, this what i received from the principal.Apart from comfortiong me and such..she did blame mia and me for that...u guys should read it and judge.
Salam..
PN Siti,
“What should i expect that she will learn?”
Just to brief you a little bit about the program at SC. actually before parent enroll their child, they will be guided to understand our syllabus that has been prepared for 2.5 – 6 yrs.
If you aware, every morning during assembly time, the teacher will on cd that consist Asma’al-Husna, Negaraku song & 1 Malaysia song. Next, the teacher will sing a phonics song ‘Ants on the Apple’. The purpose of this phonics song is to expose the child before they start learns how to read (by age 4yr).
Based on my experience since 2002 with early childhood education, the child will get something after 2 months with our program. I hope you will try to identify what actually Mia got from new school. It is impossible if you said she gets nothing and still sing the same song that you teach her before or from Taska Jari Kecil. There is something lacking….Have you check are you really follow our program such as come to school on time? How often Mia miss the class? Its sound simple but it will affect the mood & routine of the children. As I notice Mia will refused when teacher wants to change her diapers or shower her. As we have same objective towards our child, I would say, we have to discuss from time to time how to develop and support them, not to put the blame to school or teacher or make our child as a sample to find out which is the best kindergarten for them.
We are not like other school or method, like smart reader (focusing on reading only). Our program emphasizes on the development of the whole aspects in our kids, we called it Syumul in Islam.
Throughout my observation, I agreed that Mia is a fast learner but has a short concentration span. But at this stage, she needs to be prepared with Montessori environment in order to be normalized child (e.g. love of order, love of work, self-disciplined etc.).
For your information, we will let the child age 2.5 – 4yrs to play with the apparatus and socialize with others in harmony + doing hands on activity such as art & craft. We have an area called Exercise of Practical Life. This curriculum will develop motor skills and co-ordination, as well as enriching her vocabulary. Socially, too, new skills are developed as she gradually becomes more aware of other people’s needs. In our program, we emphasize more on playing with other children to develop social skills. It can also encourage learning and develop concentration too.
At this age, please don’t focus more on academic and always question ‘when she will read & write’. The time will come later when she is ready.
We can’t fulfill all the parent’s needs. We hope with the program that we provide is able to help parents nowadays in bringing up children in a complex and rapidly changing world. Insya-Allah, if you really follow what we have plan to our child, you can see the result (at 6 yr).
Yang baik itu semuanya drp Allah s.w.t.
Truly,
Teacher Eshah
Principal
What???...The result will only can be seen at 6 years old..thats mean 3.5years to go..Saya bukanlah nak bergadoh dgn the principal or such..i really want to know, what she actually learn from school.Compare to Jari Kecil before,.I can hear she sings new song each time i come and fetch her. Ok, i got to admit , that Mia had difficulty to wake up at early in the morning. Apart from 8am, i usually send her to school at 9.30am..She need her 12hours sleep too.Tak sampai hati tak kejutkan dia awal2.
Then..i reply back to the teacher..
Salam to your teacher eshah..
1. Yes she still sang the same old songs that TJK teach her.(This is also agreed by my others colleage that send their children to sc as early 8am)..No more new songs for our kids.
2. 2.5 years old toddler focus time is only 5-10 min.So what do you mean by lack of focusing? If she is really that lacking..iam sure she wont sit still when i read her 2-3 books every morning and night. And i did so many activities at home with her..finger painting, coloring, puzzle and such..and i know she can focus up to 15-20 min each time.This is consider good for 2.5years old.
So please explain more on lack of focusing term..
3. I dont expect at this age she will learn or know ABC or 123 ..But at least she get sumtin or learn sumtin from the school.And i really want to know what..As promised before Mia joined SC, the teachers said they will do potty training for the kids.And iam sure the promises is no where to be found yet.
4.Talking about craft and art..the only thing she bring back home is the scrabble from plain paper.Maybe the teachers keep the whateva that Mia's did in a file..can i go and see the file today.I will come on 5.30-6pm today.Hope i can meet you and we can discussed about this in details.
5. She really dont have any problem to shower (she love shower) or changing her pampers at home.Maybe she need a liltle comforting from the teacher to do so.
6. Yes i admit i alwiz send her late between (10-11am)..and iam sure she missed the assembly time, cd'ing time and of coz the phonic song.Later of the day..do you have any other activities for her? I will try to send her as early as 8.30am (complete with shower and "neat and tidy looking") start from tomorrow. And i will monitor for any changes compare to before..She have another 2 more month before next year..
7. I did asked the previous teacher in sc..about the learning activities for the kids..and this is her reply to me (tru fb)
" Kalau nak jaga Mia, akak jgn risau kitaorang boleh jaga dengan baik.Tapi bila tahap untuk mengajar bebudak the teachers kat sini takde proper training lagi..setakat jaga dia sampai petang insyaalah takde apa yang akak patut risau"
Is that true?what does she mean by no proper training?
Thank you for the prompt reply.I dont blame sc 100%..in fact i really love for Mia to stay in SC..apart very close to my house, and i love the ideas of education toys for her stage. But when it comes to the result, as a parents i really want to see sumtin. You are parents too..dont you want to see your children leard sumtin knew everyday.
Regards,
Siti
Am i a bad parents for expecting too much from the school..I paid RM360 every month to the school..is it wrong for me to put high expectation on Mia to learn sumtin from there. I leave my baby for 8 hours at school..and i only have 4 more hours to spend with her everyday. So i really want she learn new stuff at school during the 8hours without me.
If it comes to my baby, i alwiz make sure she will received the best. And i dont care if i really need to fight for it.Or will it do any good if i keep changing her to a new school?Am i demanding too much..or is that what mommy will alwiz do for our kids?
Sunday, November 13, 2011
English medium school
Currently im back for school hunting for Mia.
Its really so difficult to find a school that is up to my expectation.
Ada je yang tak kena.
At my house, we will speak in english with Mia (iam not good in english ..but hubby and me hantam sajalah)
And of coz Mia pun can speak english with us.
But once at school, majority the students and the teachers in smart chaliph are Malay.So they talk in Malay with each other.
So Mia pun dapat lah 1-2 Malay words everyday.
Last week balik dari sekolah..
Mia: "Mommy, Mia fight with hantu mommy"
Mommy: "What is hantu?mommy dont understand"
Mia : "Hantu is ghost..ghost is hantu"
See..now she say hantu already rather than ghost.
Before this.
Mia " Mommy..daddy said dont korek hidung"
Mia: "Daddy wrong..Mia correct"
Mommy : " Mia correct?
Mia : "Mia said dont pick ur nose..daddy said korek hidung"
Because i alwiz corrected her wheneva she spoke some Malay words..
I dont want she think that to speak in Malay is wrong..like the korek hidung case..
But at this stage i really want her to speak in english.
To find a full English medium school in Bangi is very difficult.Ada tuh ada, contoh like Smart reader,Qdees etc etc..But once the majority of the students and teachers are Malay..so mmg takkan jadi lah English medium tu.
Betul tak?
Lainlah kalau kat Subang..Malay student will mix with chinese and indian students.and Of coz they will talk in English with each other.
I believe apa pun yang kita buat kalau takde proper practice mmg tak jadi.
Sbb tu saya tak percaya enlish medium school kat bangi ni...memang la the teachers will teach in English, but bila dgn friends they will prefer talk in Malay.So bila nak practice cakap Enlish.
Now i thinking to enroll Mia kat Apple King in Kajang.Where the majority of the teachers and students are chinese.Jauh lah sket..
Memang takleh tdo balik lah lepas subuh.Mia pun kena bangun pagi2 pakai uniform.
Cekidout their page here http://www.appleking.com.my/
What say you mommies..penting ke tak english medium school ni.
p/s i know..about the important of islamic education too..sekolah Al Amin pun memang depan rumah saya.But they dont accept Mia yet.Tunggulah she turn to 5years old nanti.Baru i enroll her there pula.Let her learn and have fun with english first.Then lepas tu nak cakap malay pun i dont care..at least dia dah ada basic in english
Its really so difficult to find a school that is up to my expectation.
Ada je yang tak kena.
At my house, we will speak in english with Mia (iam not good in english ..but hubby and me hantam sajalah)
And of coz Mia pun can speak english with us.
But once at school, majority the students and the teachers in smart chaliph are Malay.So they talk in Malay with each other.
So Mia pun dapat lah 1-2 Malay words everyday.
Last week balik dari sekolah..
Mia: "Mommy, Mia fight with hantu mommy"
Mommy: "What is hantu?mommy dont understand"
Mia : "Hantu is ghost..ghost is hantu"
See..now she say hantu already rather than ghost.
Before this.
Mia " Mommy..daddy said dont korek hidung"
Mia: "Daddy wrong..Mia correct"
Mommy : " Mia correct?
Mia : "Mia said dont pick ur nose..daddy said korek hidung"
Because i alwiz corrected her wheneva she spoke some Malay words..
I dont want she think that to speak in Malay is wrong..like the korek hidung case..
But at this stage i really want her to speak in english.
To find a full English medium school in Bangi is very difficult.Ada tuh ada, contoh like Smart reader,Qdees etc etc..But once the majority of the students and teachers are Malay..so mmg takkan jadi lah English medium tu.
Betul tak?
Lainlah kalau kat Subang..Malay student will mix with chinese and indian students.and Of coz they will talk in English with each other.
I believe apa pun yang kita buat kalau takde proper practice mmg tak jadi.
Sbb tu saya tak percaya enlish medium school kat bangi ni...memang la the teachers will teach in English, but bila dgn friends they will prefer talk in Malay.So bila nak practice cakap Enlish.
Now i thinking to enroll Mia kat Apple King in Kajang.Where the majority of the teachers and students are chinese.Jauh lah sket..
Memang takleh tdo balik lah lepas subuh.Mia pun kena bangun pagi2 pakai uniform.
Cekidout their page here http://www.appleking.com.my/
What say you mommies..penting ke tak english medium school ni.
p/s i know..about the important of islamic education too..sekolah Al Amin pun memang depan rumah saya.But they dont accept Mia yet.Tunggulah she turn to 5years old nanti.Baru i enroll her there pula.Let her learn and have fun with english first.Then lepas tu nak cakap malay pun i dont care..at least dia dah ada basic in english
Babysitter
Frust lagi.
Baru tadi saya tanya kat neighbour sebelah rumah samada dia sudi nak jaga baby no.2 saya nanti ke tak?
and dia jawab tak sanggup..sbb dia dah penat jaga 9 orang anak.sekarang dia nak relax je skang.
Cucu dia sendiri pun dia suruh anak dia hantar ke nursery.
Frust lagi..
Maid tak dapat2 lagi...
Baby no.2 ni saya ingat takmo hantar ke nursery macam Mia dah.
Samada dpt baby sitter or maid.
Frust frust..
Saya ingatkan neightbour sebelah ni harapan terakhir saya..sbb tgk dia relax je kat rumah.
Tapi hampa lagi..
Takpe lah..takde rezeki kat situ..
Kena carik lagi..
Hopefully ada lah maid before saya deliver.
Dapat guna maid setahun cukuplah.
Habis saya study nanti, dia nak balik indon silakan..
Babysitter pun sama..kalau dapat jaga baby no.2 sampai umor setahun pun ok..
Pastu baby no.2 boleh masuk school.
Kadang2 apa yang kita nak..tak selalu kita dapat.
Allah lebih mengetahui semuanya
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Artzooka Version M&M (Mia&Mommy)
Dah boring finger painting kat drawing paper je kan.
So semalam , before dinner..Me and Mia finger painting at potatoes.
And im sure she had so much fun doing different art activities at home.
Focus sampai mulut muncung sedepa.
Sampai comot comot.
Mommy malas nak potong kulit potato tu.Kalau tak lagi nice kan..Ke tak?
Next time boleh try with skinless potato lak.
Then bila potato dah siap color so boleh rolling rolling kan kat drawing paper.
Walaaaaa...and the result.menarik kan..
So ibuk ibuk bapak bapak boleh try sendiri ya..
Happy Friday...
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