Playdate gone WILD

Lina and me had our girls playdate at Critterland yesterday (Will upload the piccas soon)
To my dissapointment, Mia WHACKED cha2 a few times yesterday.
I felt so worry and a bit embarassed with my 2-year-old's behavior and thinking did i just raised a bully.
I dont think cha2 did anything wrong to her..and i really dont understand why she must be so upset with cha2.

Fikir punya fikir..i think Mia' jeleos kat Cha2 kut..i did hug and kiss cha2 a few times and even praised Cha2 on how smart she was..I also hold cha2 hand and helped her climbed the stair...and MAYBE THAT WAS IT..she felt treaten by Cha2 present..

What i did yesterday to stop Mia's behavious?

1. Respond quickily..
I stop her wheneva she tried to hit Cha2..and tell her its not good to hit her frend.

2. Remove her from the situation.
I take her away from Cha2..and let her know if she did that again..i will directly bring her back home.NO MORE PLAY.

3.show and tell
After a minute i pulled her aside..i asked her why she got so mad with Cha2..and you guys know what her answer
"Ni mommy Nya"..and gime me a big hug...So that was it la..she dont want to share ME with Cha2..
and i did explain to her...NO ONE can take me from you..iam your mommy alone.BUT Cha2 is your frend..and it is not OK for you to hit her..You need to love your fren..dont babab ..dont bite..but you can hug her..or kiss her..
I asked her again " Do you still want to play with Cha2?" and when she said yes..i make her to promise not to hit Cha2 again..

4.Reward
I tell her if she promise to behave..i will bring her again to Critterland.


RESULT
Oklah..no more hitting after that..they even holding hand all the way back to car park. So cute..orang lalu lalang pun toleh 2-3 kali ..seriously sangat cute..from belakang pun cute..from depan apatah lagi..

23 and counting to 24...

3 more weeks budak kecik-comel bangat-meh gomol satu kali - ni will enter her big 2

Dah besar anak dara saya ni.

Ragam pun macam2..poning kepalo den.

Dulu saya ingat nak jadi macam emak yang sopan santun.Tapi skang dah macam apa tah jerit sana sini.

Patutlah orang panggil the terrible 2..mmg betul2 terrible..

Dah nak masuk 2 tahun,tapi saya still anggap dia cam baby.

Tak pernah lah nak percaya untuk let go dia main slide/swing sorang.

Saya still takut dia jatuh or pape la..saya mesti akan pegang tgn dia masa nak slide down..macam budak umor setahun je kan..

Dia naik tangga pun saya cemas je tgk.

Tah apa apa tah..fobia tak pasal2.

Her weight still maintain di takuk yang lama 12kg

And her height is 87cm..(Lagi 3 cm takleh nak masuk sunway lagoon free dah)

Haritu pergila gatal kat booth S26 di Sunway Pyramid.

Saja gatal2 nak measure BMI Mia..

Alhamdullilah dia di atas average..Healyth weight compare to her height.

Mia personality so far..saaaaangat becok..

Memang mulut mak limah ..patutlah ada tahi lalat kat mulut.

Tak berhenti henti bercakap..pot pet pot pet..pot pet pot pet.

Sometimes kalau saya malas nak layan..dia amik bear2 cakap dgn bear2 pula.

Siap read book kat bear2 lagi..

Damia Zahra yang bererti Perempuan cantik yang pandai..

ekekek..suka hati lah ko..

Mode rambut: baru balik nursery..Mommy bawa pergi big park dekat Tasik di Bangi tu.

Nama apa tah..best jugalah round2 kat sini..

Park dia kotor..so tak jadi nak main2 kat sana..end up we all jalan2 je..

Professor serba TAK TAHU

Kadang2 rasa mcm tak layak untuk sambung master and Phd..Rasa mcm bengong2 je untuk menjadi para academician yang cerdik pandai terbilang dan membilang.

Sebabnya, saya rasa saya takde lah hati untuk mengkaji sedalam2 dalamnya setiap tajuk dalam setiap chapter.Apa yang Prof ajar saya terima je bulat2.Kadang2 buat teory sendiri untuk faham (hafal je sebenarnya)
Takde lah saya macam classmate yang lain yang sangup refer ke 3-4 buah buku sekadar untuk memahafi sesuatu topic.Mereka layak bergelar academician, sbb mereka ada satu urge untuk mengkaji dengan lebih lanjut lagi.

Saya tidak..cukuplah saya tahu..cukuplah saya rasa saya boleh jawab soalan exam.Bengong kan..
Tah apa2 tah..malas je lebih.Saya bukan lah sepintar mana..Namanya ex-Tun Fatimah and also UTM..tapi hampeh..saya punya malas dah mengatasi segala galanya.
Bila dah tua sambung belajar ni mmg rasa azab lebih.
Sempena Mothers day yang dah lepas semalam saya nak mencalonkan diri sendiri untuk menjadi "mak terbilang 2011" boleh?hehehe

Dah la kena kerja macam biasa..class untuk di ajar pun pack..Wiken sabtu ahad ada class master.Minggu final exam suami pula tiada di sisi.
Maid pun takde untuk membantu kerja rumah..jangan haraplah saya buka pintu rumah kalau u all datang mengejut ye..
phewww..mengeluh je hari2 saya ni.

Letih pula rasa bila bila larut malam gini saya terpaksa membuka mata yang ngantuk,badan yang dah letih sangat2 ..just untuk study for final exam.Kadang2 terdetik nak berhenti..Tapi bila fikir2 kan balik siapa lah lecturer yang hanya berbekalkan ijazah dan pengalaman berkerja di Sony selama 3 tahuN..siapalah saya kalau saya hanya maintain di takuk lama..

Sekarang mmg terasa sangat azabnya..Tapi insyaalah bila 10tahun nanti orang tanya Mia "mak ko kerja apa?"
Then Mia jawab "My mom is a professor" wahhhh..gitu..terbayang professor serba tahu dalam Gila gila dulu boleh..heheh.

Main Pasir

Final week exam ni terasa sangat Mia ni kekurangan kasih sayang.

Mommy balik lewat, daddy jauh kat Nihon sana.

Sian sangat.

Development activity Mia pun dah berkurang.

Tak sempat and tak larat.

Penat la..Mana nak urus rumah seorang diri.

Nak pening kepala fikir exam.

Tinggal last paper sabtu ni.

Then..yuhuuuu merdeka for 2week.

Then start second semester pula.

Siapa kata nak main pasir boleh di pantai sahaja..

Mommy Mia kata kat mana2 pun boleh..

Maka, saya dan Mia bercanda bermain pasir di dalam rumah.

Best sangat sand station ni.

Tekstur dia tak lah macam pasir kat pantai tu.

So tak lah senang nak bersepah or whatsnot.

Macam playdough just similar to pasir.

Faham ke?

Mommy malas nak godak beach tools Mia.so gunakan apa yang ada di depan mata.

Her first trial..best kan

Agak serius di situ mukanya..

Boleh main masak2 juga.

Rasa bersalah sangat hari2 saya kalau tak dapat nak spend quality time with her.

30min cukupla.

Asal ada activity kami bersama.

Kadang2 pening gak kepala nak main apa kan.

See at the same time i teach her ABC..

ekekekek

The sets include sekali dengan manual book on how to build the object.

See mommy punya aeroplane..hahah.

nampak macam turtle je kan

Nak kena try semua ni.

Btw birthday anak dara saya is around the corner.

End of May tau ..29/5/09

Saya dah beli special present for her.But simpan kat ofis dulu.

If bawa balik rumah mau nya lah dia tunggu another 3 week to open the box.

Tapi now..mommy pula tak sabar nak buka..nak main dengan Mia..

P/S Tau tak kat mana nak beli sand pit yang murah2.Takmo la beli yang sampai rm300+ kat Toys r us tu..preloved items pun ok.

The second time is not much easier than the first time

Peace from daddy

Trying to make peace sign juga

Tengah pilih nak naik flight mana.

Pergi airport je makan mc d..

Makan mc d je pergi airport

Mommy turn pula

Bermanja manjaan with mc donald

'daddy..dont leave..

Mia and mommy nak followwww....'

huhuhuuhhhu...

30 day of surviving part2

start from Today...

Red Carpet Me

EL balik Jumaat malam.

My company dinner pula malam sabtu tu.

Tak sempat pun nak mencari baju EL.

Plus El malas nak join saya melaram malam tu.

Mak berangan noks nak matching ngan EL pakai Tux.ekeke

End up dia cakap dia nak wear black shirt+jeans..

Suruh pakai matching pink pun dia dunwan tau..

Takpelah..malas nak layan..asal dia ikut cukup.

The dinner at Hotel Istana Kuala Lumpur.

My parents datang rumah jaga Mia malam tu.

Bagi can mommy-daddy nak dating .

Make up pun sendiri2 aje..dress je tempah.

heheheeh..Dayan Nur faizah peluk i tauuuu..

Vanggaaaa tau.

Dia tak lah petite mana pun.

Ok lah standard Asian size.

Nice vocal..best la dia nyanyi malam tu.

With my BFF.

We all beli kain sama2..tempah pun sama2

Kat same tailor pula tu..

ekekek..

pastu bila dah masing2 sakan macam ni,pastu segan.

Malu nak berdiri boleh?

Amik gambar berani kat luar je.

On the red carpet...wahh..berangan..berangan tau

Eventho my EL in shirt-jeans he still look yummy..
at least to me..
Love u very much la sayang

Ice sculpture..nice kann.

Turun tangga pun ada paparazzi tau..

Turun slow slow sbb pakai high heel 6'

Dah lah tinggi pakai kasut tinggi.

Sila sedar diri sekarang.

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So i nak letgo to anyone yang berminat.

You can add beading so boleh pakai for bertunang or maybe masa cake cutting.

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Worn 1 time..

Very nice material and also cantikk sangat..

Fit M-L size

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