Apa case?

Ok..ni story morie from my mom lagi..biasalah gossip cerita orang kampung...hehehe

Ada one couple kat kampung saya ni kena tangkap khalwat..budak2 pas SPM..then they get married (kawin koboi) and 9month later here it comes a beautiful baby boy..

The wife stay at her MIL house..while the husband tak kerja..husband dia ni mmg terkenal dgn perangai ala2 syaitoon sket kat kampung saya ni..kutu lepak, case curi, kena tangkap polis,keluar masuk lokap..padahal umor baru je setahun jagung..apsal la budak pompuan ni terpikat sangat ngan dia wa pun tara tau..

MIL budak pompuan ni a.k.a mak budak lelaki tu la pun mmg terkenal dgn perangai mami jarum+mulut takde insuran+CNN bergerak kat kampung saya ini..

The wife ni kena treat teruk gla kat rumah tu..mcm kuli indon..even nak balik rumah mak dia pun MIL dia tak bagi..kesian kan...dia bersabar like 4 month kat rumah MIL dia tu..dgn laki yang tak kerja lagi..i really cant imagine how bad is thebad is at her side..

at the end dia lari keluar rumah..masa dia lari tu MIL dia takde rumah..MIL dia bawak anak dia kuar jenjalan..baby dia mmg comey la..putih n gebu..sampai kan MIL suruh baby tu panggil dia mak ok..Teruk kan..

Budak pompuan ni lari g balik umah mak dia..which is gila dekat dengan rumah MIL ni..like 20min jalan kaki je..so skang budak pompuan ni dah kerja dah..anak dia still kat rumah MIL dia lgi..MIL dia tak bagi dah baby tu kat dia..

Ada sekali tu budak pompuan ni hantar baju+food kat rumah MIL dia ni..u guys leh imagine tak this witch campak keluar barang tu..yang lagi sedih budak pompuan ni hari2 surh mak dia hantar breast milk kat anak dia pun MIL suruh bawak balik susu tu..uwaaaa...bergenang air mata saya dgr cerita mak saya tu..

kejamnya manusia ni kan..ingat dlm drama swasta je ada..rupa rupanya its reality case..kesian kat baby tu..kesian kat mak dia juga..tapi if i was dat girl..saya akan larikan diri with my baby..i wont ever ever leave my baby alone with that witch..sedih2..

saya tanya my mom nape tak bawa naik court?sure this girl leh menang..my mom ckp nak bawak case naik court it need money ribu riban..budak baru kerja with spm qualification bape sen sangat lh gajinya kan..tapi deep down in me macam nak tolong budak pompuan ni get her son back..tapi macam mana?bab2 court etc ni saya tak reti..any mommies out there who can help?

Pasrah part2

Mak cakap kena anggap MIL sama macam mak..sbb taraf MIL tu sama dgn taraf mak sendiri.

Mak cakap jgn sesekali kecik kan hati MIL or buat MIL marah kat kita.walau macam mana pun kita takleh accept cara mak mertua itu.kita terpaksa bawak sabar banyak.

Sebab kita dah kawin dgn anak dia..so kena accept la satu family..

Mak cakap,kakak ipar saya pernah buat mak kecik hati..terus keesokkan harinya kakak ipar saya accident..mb kebetulan n mb ada kaitan..

so start dari skang saya takmo lawan ckp MIL saya lagi.walaupun saya selalu lawan ckp mak saya sendiri..ekeke..

last weekend MIL bagi Mia rasa buah oren..saya cakap tak boleh sbb buah oren berasid..tapi dia ckp buah tu manis..hurmm...tapi saya tetap tak bagi..

Saya tak bagi Mia tgk TV sampai dia age 1yr..MIL tanya kenapa..saya ckp nanti dia malas nak baca buku n mata boleh rosak..
MIL ckp takpe,dia kecik lagi..

En.Laling ckp banyak benda skang kena give n take.tak boleh nak keja asyik melawan je..
so saya tulis blog ni sbb nak janji kat diri sendiri taknak lawan ckp MIL lagi..saya kena pasrah selalu..anggap kadang2 je..balik 2minggu sekali je..kena byk sabar..

Pasrah

My MIL sumbat 2 butir nasi yang dipenyeknya guna jari masuk mulut Mia..
uwaaaa....saya sedih..tapi pasrah..
saya tak boleh nak marah..but i took my baby away from her rite after dat..

What will u do mommies if dat ever happen to u...

Oh ye..last nite went to meet up Sarah a.k.a Mama Rafiq at her parents house in Kajang..turn up dekat gila umah dia with mine..
cant wait to see all mommies this coming sunday k..

Anak aku..anak aku..anak orang..anak orang

hehehe..wat a topic..punyalah gangster bunyinya..
But the topic did reminded me of this..
"Isteri orang ada intan belian..Isteri abang ada abang"
heheheh...Yup its from Nur Kasih story..and this tag line which make me fall in love with this drama..oni a few weeks ni je macam dah boring sket dat story kan..apsal tah..

Ok..back to my topic..i know most parents will start solid food for their baby at 6month..exclusively breastfeed for this whole 6month..Its the WHO issue kan..

Darlink Mia will turn 5month tomorrow..so fast so soon isnt it..and En.Laling and i already agreed to introduce Mia with Solid tomorrow...Reason?No reason at all..we just think shes ready for it..Her weight is good..means milk is so enuff for her..

New born 3.3Kg
1month 4.6kg
2month 6kg
3month 7kg
4month 7.5kg

Everything seems to be so edible for her..she will put everything in her mouth..which is very good sign for an active healthy baby..and i know too,all babies will do the same thing as her.. again this doest mean she need food or hungry or sumtin..even if we give her food to eat,she will still put things in her mouth..its their nature.

The oni one part that i cannot tahan is during we are eating in front of her..her saliva will came out..and she will make a chewing sign like shes really wanna taste it..

thats all..so dont judge us for anythin ok..we know the rules and again this is my baby that we are talking about..in short "suka hati aku la"..heeheh

During this five month time i plan to introduce her homemade fruit puree only..the schedule is as below
29th/Oct ~ 1st/Nov Apple puree+breast milk
2nd/Nov ~5th/Nov Pear puree+breast milk
6th/Nov ~ 9th/Nov Banana puree+breast milk
10th/Nov ~ 13th/Nov Avocado puree+breast milk
14th/Nov ~ 17th/Nov Pear+Banana puree+breast milk
18th/Nov ~ 21st/Nov Apple+Banana puree+breast milk
22nd/Nov ~ 25th/Nov Apple+Avocado puree+breast milk
26th/Nov ~ 29th/Nov Apple+Pear+Banana+Avocado puree+breast milk

Thats mean when she enter 6month of age..she will be ready for rice pula kan..same ingredient as above just added 2spoons of rice porridge..and blend them all together..
yummilicious ke yuckkylicous?
it doesnt matter..janji its a super healthy food..on ye i read on MamaMiya resipe she added Garlick oil in the porridge..just fried garlick in one spoon of olive oil and blend it together with all the ingredient..
Garlick is good for the antibody and olive oil is good for pooping..heheh..so must try items la ni..

At 7month..i will introduce her with vegies pula..then will be follow up with chicken+fish+meat..etc etc...
So what do you think mommies..This schedule meal for Mia is ok or not..any advice..any recommended?..

Seru dah sampai..alhamdulillah

Alhamdulillah..my parents ahirnya dapat mengerjakan Haji di Makkah this year..they will be leaving in two week time..

So yesterday Mia n me temankan my parents g buat passport..happykah saya?
ye..sangat happy..coz i now they already waited for this good news like 3years already..
My dad now pun dah 61..while my mom age is 51.still strong like a fox lagi..so insyaalah selamat pergi dan selamat balik saya doakan..

Dalam happy tu ada juga sedihnya..thats mean..my parents wont be around during Raya Haji time..no rendang..no lemang watsoeva..my hometown in Kuala Pilah sure kosong..
hopefully all my siblings will be home for raya..so takdela sunyi sopi sangat rumah tu nanti..sobsobsob..

iam sure i will crying like mad on their departure date..and iam sure i will miss my mom so very much.. i want my mommmyyy...hehehe..

Silap gaya

Silap gaya betul saya marking sambil baring dgn Darlink Mia ni..
Saya suruh dia tolong tengok ja..sekali dia nak tolong marking sekali pula..
bukan dengan redpen..tapi dgn mulut..haha
abis dia dgn rakusnya menggomol paper exam saya itu..

"Mummy,what r u doin..can i help?"

"Mommy,susahnya question mommy buat ni..student mommy jawab sume salah"

"yeah...dah siap"

Guilt

iam in my solidwork class rite now..while my students doin their exercises..i am doin my daily routine bloghop from one blog to another..

Its heavily raining outside..with some kilat n petir..hurmmm...
i hope iam at home with darlink rite now..does she asleep now?
does she scared of those kilat and petir?
i do hope the nursery peep will put her blankie on..coz she just wearing a romper and with this kind of wether it surely freezing ..

Arghhh..i cant stop thinking bout my darlink..
i fely so guilty leaving her at her nursery everyday..
mommy need to work darlink..i just cant quit my job just to be with u..
theres a lotsa thing need to be consider..

beruntungnya mommies yang boleh jadi full time housewive kan..
tulah sape soh tak kawen ngan anak raja dulu..
tapi kalau kawin anak raja..maka takde la Mia ..ekekek